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[pickmeup]

so there was this guy at my school. he plays varsity waterpolo (so hotbod) :) , and he was dating my friend for about 3 days. but they were "seeing" eachother for a bit beforehand. while they were dating, he lost interest in her bc she was too much for him, but she was the one that broke it off with him. then unknowingly that they broke up, i asked her for his sn and IMed him online, thinking we were just friends. i never really notice him until then. then he starts flirting with me, and then we start seeing eachother 4 days after we started talking online. we talked about EVERYTHING there was to talk about. it was really nice, we clicked so quickly. i thought everything was perfect then a week after we started seeing eacother, he breaks it off because he " doesnt want a gf at the moment " and that he needed "time to himself bc he's been seeing so many girls " i guess i could believe him, but then again i dont. i feel like its my fault and that i sort of drove him away. idk. im just confused. i realize im not gunna wait for him, but if we were to get back together, idk if i should.

should i? what do you think my problem was?
=(

[evaleen]

If he wanted to get back with you, then you need to make sure about a few things.


1) Make sure you want to get back with him.
2) He has to be sincere in some way. I know guys now adays lack sincerety but if he seems pretty serious, that may be a good sign
3) Get a little background on his other relationships. Don't be too nosey about, but if the guy has a reputation of going out with girls for no more than 4 days, then he's a NO NO.

That's all my brain can storm up at the moment. Sorry. But yeah, don't wait on him. If he asks you out, great. If he doesn't, then it's cool, right? To me, it looked like a little fling. It lasted only 6 days.

For now, think about other things than him. Don't worry about it.