Hey I gotta serious problem Options

[*kryogenix*]

Hey CB, I have a very serious problem. I'm f**king crying because of how stupid I am.

Okay, so my girlfriend was supposed to come over to my house today because I was going to go take her to a movie. She lives about 20 minutes away, and the movie we were supposed to see started at 4:15, which was in about 40 minutes. I figured "cool, I'll just play Pokemon while I wait".

So I'm playing Pokemon, and having a pretty damn good time. Anyway, she finally does show up, except she's crying as she walks into my room. Instead of doing the right thing by comforting her, I half-focus on my game and her. She starts telling me her cat died, and just as she was getting into it, I get into a random encounter in my game.

A shiny pidgey. Holy shit. (For those of you who don't know/care, shiny pokemon have less than a 1/1000 chance of appearing). I stare into my screen in amazement, yelling "holy shit, YES", interrupting her mid-story. She sobs more, and she starts to yell "You don't even f**king care! YOU JUST WANT TO PLAY YOUR f**king GAME!" I'm still looking at my screen, still focusing on catching my shiny pidgey, when she walks over, and tosses the game against the wall. I run over and pick up my DS hoping that nothing has changed on screen, and quickly noticed that she broke it. My system and my shiny pidgey, gone forever.

I start screaming every obscenity I know, and started flailing my arms around. I didn't know she was behind me, and apparently I backhanded her in the face while I was being a dumbass and swinging my fists around. She yells out "f**k YOU", and runs out of my house in tears.

What have I done? I've f**ked up so badly, and I need to know how to approach her. I don't want a game of Pokemon to be responsible for ruining my best relationship ever. Help me CB!

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

lol you thought that pokemon was more important than your GIRLFRIEND LOL!!

this is my best advice. if you seriously would not let your Pokemon down to listen to your girlfriend sobbing then you obviously dont really care for her. I mean PAUSE the game for at least 5 minutes to listen to her troubles that IS part of the realtionship. Shes by yourside and you are by her side when either of you are having a bad day if you guys cant handle that, then it is not going to be a good realtionship.


BUT that is pretty jacked up that she messed up your game not only stupid but childish and a spoil rant. I know that if anyone broke something of mine that was expensive just because of a spoil rant i would PERSONALLY kick their ass out of my house.

but if you still want to be with her then you better start getting on your knees and bringing her flowers and im sorry letters.

hope it works out!