MY BFS MOM HATES ME!!!, things are getting worse |
 Aug 3 2006, 09:42 PM
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 i call it love<333  Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 448,479  |
[font=Arial]this is pretty long so be prepared ^_^ [/font=arial]hmm ok well first i met this guy Elmer.. a lllooooong time ago! about a few years ago. i had a crush on him and he had a crush on me... but we never saw each other after that.. THEN i met him again in sept.2005` at a YFC Camp. we remembered each other but didnt really talk. he gave me his number and since the last day of camp.. weve been talking EVERY SINGLE DAY even up til` around 4am. wed both get in trouble alot too. finally on Jan. 06, 2006 at 1:43am HE ASKED ME OUT <333 3 days before my birthday ! but ever since he and i talk on the phone.. his mom n dad never liked me. my mom&dad never knew either. >.< a few weeks after we were going out i had a bad feeling about that day.. & i was right. His mom told my aunt about me & him and she told my mom!!!! my mom talked to me.. & she thinks hes my first BF but he isnt.. =] IM HIS first GF cuz hes always been lookin` for the right girl that he wanted to be with. weeeellllll.. amazingly my mom WANTED me to tell her and she thought it was cute. she kept asking why i chose him.. but yeah. THEN.. things get worse.. his dads always yelling at him. and his parents are such SDHFDGGH yeah !  grr.. his dad doesnt really care && my parents talked to him. MY DAD DOESNT KNOW ABOUT ME & HIM. but my mom knows. one day a few months ago elmer told me he wouldnt hug me until i talked to his mom. so i gathered all my courage and walked up to her with a friend of mine. his mom IGNORED ME THE HOLE TIME!! i was so upset. she acts like a teenager. she told him she AUTOMATICALLY knew who i was & what kinda girl i was with just one look at me. WTF IS THAT ?! then she talks SOOO much mess about me.. shes like a damn` kid or something. ugh. i try to be nice.. i respect her & all that but shes so MEAN. she cant hold onto him forever. sdghogfiogh AGH ! & she MAD ALSO cuz i invite him to the movies and parties.. WTF ? THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH DOING THAT!!!!! his mom is so closeminded too!! jeez` Elmers always defending me and his mom gets mad when he does that. we dont see each other alot.. just.. a few times a month.. the longest ive gone without seeing him is about 2 months ? hmm && right now.. last time i saw him was 2 weeks ago. jeez` idk what his moms problem is. i dont understand her and she doesnt even wanna get to know me or anything ! my aunt is trying to set up a gathering thing for my parents & his & my aunt & whatever.. but his moms being a bitch` & doesnt wanna. my parents dont like his mom so whatever. idk.. HELP ME ! how am i supposed to deal with this !? i love him so much.. but things are just getting worse & i dont really know how to explain the rest of it.. |
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Dec 4 2006, 12:38 PM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
actually from my experience, my parents hated the idea that i had a boyfriend when i was in 8th grade! yup they just thought was too young and said i can have a boyfriend when im in college! so i was just like whatever! but i knew my mom didnt hate him cuz she doesnt even know him. but my bf's mom was ok with it.
so what we did was we still spent alot of time together. we tried to avoid my parents. i was able to spend time with him at his house and go out and whatnot. after a year! my mom gave in and didnt care anymore. he was able to come over the house now. it was so awesome! so we pretty much waited it out. and now we've been together for 8 years. :) |
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Dec 4 2006, 10:02 PM
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i call it love<333 Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 448,479 |
QUOTE(Trinie @ Dec 4 2006, 12:38 PM)  actually from my experience, my parents hated the idea that i had a boyfriend when i was in 8th grade! yup they just thought was too young and said i can have a boyfriend when im in college! so i was just like whatever! but i knew my mom didnt hate him cuz she doesnt even know him. but my bf's mom was ok with it. so what we did was we still spent alot of time together. we tried to avoid my parents. i was able to spend time with him at his house and go out and whatnot. after a year! my mom gave in and didnt care anymore. he was able to come over the house now. it was so awesome! so we pretty much waited it out. and now we've been together for 8 years. :) wow thats a long time. he and i are having our ELEVEN months in a few days though. and id love to spend time with him but he goes to a private school and i dont.. and he lives aboutr 30 minutes away from me and i have no way to go to him and he has no way to go to me >.,< |
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