Age?, He's 20 and i'm 15... |
 Nov 28 2006, 03:50 PM
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 speak without words  Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,622  |
First off, I know it's more or less illegal. It's difficult. We've known each other for three years now and we've been friends for two of those years. He's not going to take advantage of me since he'd only screw himself over by doing so. I brought this up with another friend of mine and he said "I was too smart for that." I sure hope he's right if anything does happen. We get along really well - so well that it's nearly crazy. We both have this sense of humor and we're both witty. I never thought I'd have so much in common with one person and be so different at the same time. I've already gotten into the arguments and conflicts with my friends. Some approve and some were strongly against it. i suppose they've learned to accept it. (They had no right to judge him just by his age anyway. They didn't know him at all. Those who did were okay with it.) Most of his friends are actually okay with it. My friend says it's understandable and not so strange to him because I'm supposedly mature for my age. I don't really care whether or not he's right about my maturity, but I do believe the whole situation understandable. If the age gap wasn't so strange, then everything would be okay. If you saw us together walking in the mall, you'd have no idea we had so many years in between us.
Is it really a big deal? |
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Nov 29 2006, 09:40 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
forget it unless u wanna end up wit his baby when he dips out on you cuz he just wants some easy ass and u get a rep of a slut. move on forget him
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Nov 29 2006, 05:48 PM
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speak without words Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,622 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Nov 29 2006, 9:40 AM)  forget it unless u wanna end up wit his baby when he dips out on you cuz he just wants some easy ass and u get a rep of a slut. move on forget him HAHA! Aren't being a bit cynical there? Although many people are like that nowadays, it doesn't mean it's always like that. Oh, even if we had sex... Why would he do that and just leave? He could go to jail. I'm not even going there until later. Much later. I didn't want to respond to your opinions with "no, there's no way that's going to happen" since, well, even I'm not sure. I'm giving it the benefit of the doubt, though. I wish you all knew the whole story and what we're like as individuals, but that's a bit too much to expect from all of you. The age gap does bring a lot of drama, whether or not it's "high school drama." We do get into a lot of conflicts with our friends about it and whatnot. Funny thing is that when they meet him then be enlightened about his age, they're okay with it; on the other hand, if they find out his age and never meet him, they have a problem with it. |
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Dec 4 2006, 10:26 AM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE(aznraver396 @ Nov 29 2006, 5:48 PM) HAHA! Aren't being a bit cynical there? Although many people are like that nowadays, it doesn't mean it's always like that. Oh, even if we had sex... Why would he do that and just leave? He could go to jail. I'm not even going there until later. Much later. I didn't want to respond to your opinions with "no, there's no way that's going to happen" since, well, even I'm not sure. I'm giving it the benefit of the doubt, though. I wish you all knew the whole story and what we're like as individuals, but that's a bit too much to expect from all of you. The age gap does bring a lot of drama, whether or not it's "high school drama." We do get into a lot of conflicts with our friends about it and whatnot. Funny thing is that when they meet him then be enlightened about his age, they're okay with it; on the other hand, if they find out his age and never meet him, they have a problem with it. aha ok go out wit the guy. after a few months then come back and give us a recap on how things goin. most likly u gon be cryin on how he left u and u carryin his baby in your hands. either that or u gon be complainin on how your rep is changed and stuff but hey, thats only like 85% of the ending result. who knows, he might just wait 3-4 years for you to actually have sex with you cuz u know, 20 year old guys are so willing to give up 3-4 years of their lives in hookin up wit their own aged girls and sleepin wit them and waitin for a minor to turn 18 just to give her a kiss **and yes it is against the law for you two for even kissin** But if your heart is so set on bein broken, go ahead 
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aznraver396 Age? Nov 28 2006, 03:50 PM
xlitoxb I think for some people just the hearing that you... Nov 28 2006, 04:50 PM klwfbh I agree. Especially since you've known eachh-o... Nov 28 2006, 04:56 PM angel_revelation i think it's good, since he isn't taking a... Nov 28 2006, 05:35 PM hardxcoreL0VER ^ Agree. Wait till your 18.
It's not that big... Nov 28 2006, 06:08 PM Sweet_Suicide No matter how mature or immature a person is, it c... Nov 28 2006, 06:57 PM aznraver396 I know I'd have to wait. My parents don't ... Nov 28 2006, 08:05 PM TearsOfAPhoenix My best friend is 16 and is dating my boyfriend... Nov 28 2006, 08:20 PM boo! grr... i don't think age really matters. aslong as yo... Nov 29 2006, 01:43 AM sadolakced acid i'm sorry, but i've never met a 15 year ol... Nov 29 2006, 02:33 AM KielReese Yea, Im 23 now, and 5 years younger than myself is... Nov 29 2006, 04:35 AM ANGEEZY. It is kind of a deal because of the ages, but what... Nov 29 2006, 05:02 AM sofakinglazy QUOTE(aznraver396 @ Nov 28 2006, 12:50 PM... Nov 29 2006, 08:53 PM
aznraver396 QUOTE(sofakinglazy @ Nov 29 2006, 8:53 PM... Nov 30 2006, 04:26 PM a painefull euphoria i would say if you really cant wait till your 18 t... Nov 29 2006, 09:05 PM MasterNe0 I was in ur position a while back. Girl was a few ... Nov 30 2006, 05:25 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ I certainly hope you're as bright as you give ... Nov 30 2006, 07:21 PM aznraver396 QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Nov 30 2006, 7... Nov 30 2006, 08:43 PM splitnightsky I would say to wait til you are 18 :)
my parents ... Nov 30 2006, 09:01 PM aznraver396 Oh, my parents are eight years apart, but they... Nov 30 2006, 09:10 PM Gypsy Eyes I wouldn't wait until you're eighteen, jus... Nov 30 2006, 10:49 PM nightowl89 well it depends on a lot of things, but the bottom... Dec 1 2006, 01:38 AM Infinite. I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 20, theres nothing ... Dec 1 2006, 10:27 AM yaamakoh a friend of mine was 21, his ex was 16. his twin b... Dec 1 2006, 02:25 PM aznraver396 QUOTE(yaamakoh @ Dec 1 2006, 2:25 PM) (i ... Dec 1 2006, 06:41 PM Duchess of Dork The age gap isn't really all that monumental. ... Dec 1 2006, 02:28 PM sadolakced acid look, when i think of how immature i was at 15, i ... Dec 4 2006, 12:45 AM Crimson_Sky Here's my advice. If you believe that you... Dec 4 2006, 12:59 AM xmsluscious i dont think it's a big deal. i use to date a ... Dec 4 2006, 01:15 AM |
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