Give me your opinion! Does weight matter?, Girls Girls Girls S - XXXL What do you prefer? Options

[*Uronacid*]

I'm only doing this poll to find out if people really care about weight. I see so many girls becomeing annerexic, or getting depressed over having a high metabolism... I'm talking about girls in general. Don't think about anything except the way that they are built.

Me personally I don't care about a girls weight as-long-as she is healthy, and she doesn't eat like a pig or stave like a homeless person I find them attrative. Of course I have to get to know them first, but if my girlfriend was starving herself or eating her self into a new bathtub (because she couldn't fit into the old one) I would be pretty discouraged... On the other hand, if her matabolism was to low or too high... I wouldn't mind at all, becuase it would be something beyond her control... why should I find her unattrative if she is who she is...

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Weight should matter, but not in an esthetic way, but more like in a healthy way. You shouldn't date people just because of their looks. I mean, if you already start judging someone on their weight, then aren't you going to pursue that judgement even futhur? Anyways, that's not my point.

Some people are naturally skinny and as stated have high metabolisms. Others are big boned. I used to have a friend and people would make fun of him because they thought he was fat, but he's just big boned. His family is that way. It's not their fault. He's active in sports and he's got normal eating habits. Lord knows, I eat more than him.

So is it fair to judge people on weight and size even if it's not their fault they are the way they are?

And when it comes to blaming the media, blame it on celebrites on television and in movies. You can blame Jessica Alba for having hottest body and having a gorgeous picture of her in a magazine. (No offense to Jessica Alba in particular, I love her, but she's hot and was a good example). I know it's not the girl's fault for being insecure with herself, but she's looking to someone who's got personal trainers and dietists. I do also happen to think that Jessica Alba is normal sized.

Another part of major magazines are ADs. I'm a large fashion photography fan and those stick figures you see? Well, if you've seen alot of fashion ads, I pretty much call it art, but mind you, there are also plus size models that are just as pretty. It's up to the admirer to see what they want to see. One can look at a Dolce&Gabbana ad and see the petite sized model. Take it from my point of view, I look at the shot itself and not the person. The lighting can be gorgeous and the clothes and the setting.

Thus summing it up to: I don't believe in blaming ADs. I blame it on the way people look at things.

ONE LAST THING! When you exercise, you eat more, but you won't gain weight. You'll eat more food so you can replace the energy that you used when you were working. It's only when the amount of food surpasses the exercise amount, you'll gain weight.

And remember this: "If you're skinny now and you eat alot, you might just gain the fat when you get older."

Sorry about the long-ness.