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is a bf/gf the key to happiness?, or is single and fabulous not a myth?
nightowl89
post Nov 30 2006, 11:06 PM
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I think this is worth thinking about...I'm actually writing my fall paper on the fact that even in the most feminist, pro-independent woman eras, women still seemed to need to end up married, either to fit in with society, or for stability.

There's still obviously a tremedous emphasis on romantic relationships. Teens are starting to date form a younger and younger age. I just think sometimes it's important at some point to examine why we feel compelled to find that perfect Mr or Mrs. Right

any thoughts?
I'm just presenting the question: NOT bashing relationships

Can you be single and perfectly happy in the long run?
 
 
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splitnightsky
post Dec 1 2006, 10:45 AM
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we were made to want and be loved, if you think about it.
so I understand why everyone wants to get married.
plus, it is wired in us when we are younger that we have to
to be happy.

I'd have to say you can be happy either way.
if you were meant to be single your whole life,
then you will be very unhappy should you get married.

personally, I really want to get married.
I like being in relationships, even though I'm single now
and prolly will be for quite a while :/

sometimes you will say you will swear off men.
cuz sometimes, they suck big time at relationships.
but then again, you may find your true love in the first person you date :)
you never know ;)
 

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nightowl89   is a bf/gf the key to happiness?   Nov 30 2006, 11:06 PM
Rachellll   I've never exactly been in a real relationship...   Nov 30 2006, 11:25 PM
thousandsummers   well i think that uh we could be single and happy....   Nov 30 2006, 11:31 PM
My Cinderella.   Well I guess it different for everyone. But resear...   Nov 30 2006, 11:40 PM
Jackieice   I don't think that you have to be in a relatio...   Nov 30 2006, 11:41 PM
T0rmented_Soul   yeah sure why not. Theres many ways out there and...   Nov 30 2006, 11:50 PM
nightowl89   so nice to see intelligent responses I guess ...   Dec 1 2006, 12:10 AM
T0rmented_Soul   ..HUH lol but yeah being in real relationship ca...   Dec 1 2006, 12:15 AM
tic tac.   I agree with what Jane said. I'd say if you...   Dec 1 2006, 12:23 AM
SimplicityGirl   I've been on both ends of the spectrum, and I ...   Dec 1 2006, 12:37 AM
Infinite.   I think its different for everyone, people have di...   Dec 1 2006, 10:31 AM
splitnightsky   we were made to want and be loved, if you think ab...   Dec 1 2006, 10:45 AM
ashopely   Well, i have never been in a real relationship. s...   Dec 1 2006, 04:32 PM
x1227x   both of them can actually be the "key to happ...   Dec 1 2006, 06:46 PM
emokimo.co.nr   Not always!   Dec 1 2006, 06:47 PM
aznraver396   Plenty of people are perfectly happy and content w...   Dec 1 2006, 06:50 PM
Wo0yaPo0ya   I think it all depends on what kind of person you ...   Dec 1 2006, 09:28 PM
a painefull euphoria   i find that my boyfriend is one of the things that...   Dec 2 2006, 10:53 AM
bfd   i think people have different needs at different t...   Dec 2 2006, 11:03 AM
mai_z   me and my bf talked about this, and his theory is ...   Dec 2 2006, 03:22 PM
Mr. Slowjamz   i guess it also depends on your beliefs too ....if...   Dec 2 2006, 08:36 PM
.lyricalLIES   That's a hard question to ask, really. I mean...   Dec 2 2006, 09:01 PM
Statues/Shadows   I don't think you need the relationship aspect...   Dec 2 2006, 09:16 PM
Mr. Slowjamz   this topic made me think alot ... i guess because ...   Dec 2 2006, 09:36 PM
Crestfallen Shadow   I guess you can be single and happy. But I know f...   Dec 3 2006, 02:53 AM
Angelina Taylor   You don't have to be in a relationship to be h...   Dec 3 2006, 09:05 AM
xosugarkissesox   For me I'm 10 times happier when I'm in a ...   Dec 3 2006, 09:06 AM
tropicalchic   I used to always think that boyfriends and relatio...   Dec 3 2006, 10:26 PM
xostolenkissezox   i think you can be single and happy but being in a...   Dec 4 2006, 12:11 AM


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