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How do u be with somebody but not fall in love?
Spec_R
post Nov 29 2006, 05:22 AM
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Exactly what the title asked.
Is there any ways on how to be with somebody but not fall in love with them?
I am giving my ex a second try on our relationship. I lost a lot of amont of feelings for her but still have a little bit of love. But I'm afraid that she will hurt me again so is there any ways to be with her but not fall in love? Any suggestion, tips, advices...? thanks =)
 
 
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SimplicityGirl
post Nov 30 2006, 02:48 AM
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you can love somebody and not be with them, but you really can't be with them and not love them. Feelings develop....whether you want them to or not. I tried to do what your title suggests....by being "together" with a close guy friend of mine but promising myself that I'd never develop any kind of feelings for him past a friend....the ending of that? We're together now because I fell for him and he had feelings for me too.

If you don't want to end up falling for her again, don't even think about giving her a second chance. You can always love her in your heart. And just cuz you love her, doesn't necessarily means that you have to be with her. =]
 

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Spec_R   How do u be with somebody but not fall in love?   Nov 29 2006, 05:22 AM
icy_wonderland   Why would you want to be with someone but not fall...   Nov 29 2006, 05:27 AM
ANGEEZY.   ^ Yeah. It doesn't make sense. And you can...   Nov 29 2006, 05:39 AM
Spec_R   I will eventually.... Just don't want to give ...   Nov 29 2006, 05:58 AM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   QUOTE(Spec_R @ Nov 29 2006, 5:58 AM) I wi...   Nov 29 2006, 01:50 PM
x1227x   QUOTE(Spec_R @ Nov 29 2006, 2:58 AM) I wi...   Dec 9 2006, 01:15 AM
R o y   It's either you love the person or don't l...   Nov 29 2006, 05:08 PM
a painefull euphoria   if she f**ked you over the second time then more t...   Nov 29 2006, 06:13 PM
_sarcastic_   why be with her if you can't trust her?   Nov 30 2006, 01:23 AM
SimplicityGirl   you can love somebody and not be with them, but yo...   Nov 30 2006, 02:48 AM
tinasmileeetina   "Loving someone is giving them the ability to...   Nov 30 2006, 03:24 AM
Wo0yaPo0ya   Ditto the second post. It seems contradictory to b...   Dec 2 2006, 05:03 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   hmm. Don't get close to the person. Which is g...   Dec 2 2006, 05:07 PM
ashopely   my advice. if you don't want to fall in love,...   Dec 3 2006, 12:50 PM
lexaa621   never give anyone a second chance if you truly wan...   Dec 3 2006, 01:39 PM
My Cinderella.   I have heard of people getting back with their ex...   Dec 3 2006, 10:44 PM
x_y0urElectrikk   I'm pretty much in the exact situation.. idk w...   Dec 4 2006, 02:58 PM
SkittleyDoo   I'm bitter. If someone hurts me I cut off all ...   Dec 4 2006, 03:44 PM
Spec_R   you guys are right. not even worth giving 2nd chan...   Dec 5 2006, 05:49 AM
krnxswat   Everyone's worth giving a second chance.   Dec 5 2006, 05:57 AM
showme   Bone her!   Dec 6 2006, 12:21 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   QUOTE(showme @ Dec 5 2006, 9:21 PM) Bone ...   Dec 9 2006, 12:31 AM


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