Age?, He's 20 and i'm 15... Options

[aznraver396]

First off, I know it's more or less illegal. It's difficult. We've known each other for three years now and we've been friends for two of those years. He's not going to take advantage of me since he'd only screw himself over by doing so. I brought this up with another friend of mine and he said "I was too smart for that." I sure hope he's right if anything does happen. We get along really well - so well that it's nearly crazy. We both have this sense of humor and we're both witty. I never thought I'd have so much in common with one person and be so different at the same time. I've already gotten into the arguments and conflicts with my friends. Some approve and some were strongly against it. i suppose they've learned to accept it. (They had no right to judge him just by his age anyway. They didn't know him at all. Those who did were okay with it.) Most of his friends are actually okay with it. My friend says it's understandable and not so strange to him because I'm supposedly mature for my age. I don't really care whether or not he's right about my maturity, but I do believe the whole situation understandable. If the age gap wasn't so strange, then everything would be okay. If you saw us together walking in the mall, you'd have no idea we had so many years in between us.

Is it really a big deal?

[ANG33ZY]

It is kind of a deal because of the ages, but what can you do. You feel a connection with the person and you have eachother's trust. Also, he isn't going to take advantage of you and that's a great thing since that's what guys usually do. I find that so sweet, hehe =]

Just because of the ages, you should wait till you're 18.