Help with my new layout Options

[xaraan]

I am using one of the layouts from your list of overlays. I obviously replaced the pic of the flowers with a pic of me and a couple other minor modifications here and there. But my problem is that for some reason, it doesn't show up right when some of my friends view it in IE and/or Safari. It works fine in Firefox. I even tried to look at it from work on IE and it doesn't load the actual overlay image with the main graphic, it looks only like a gray background with some of the text on it.

I don't know what I'm doing wrong here. Can anyone help?

profile is myspace.com/xaraan if you want to try and view it

and this: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v55/xaraan/Picture1-2.png is the webaddress of the screen shot of how it should hopefully look.

One more question...
on the second row where the blog entries are, I have been trying to get a small music player to insert in there; but having trouble with that as well. The couple I've found that I thought would be small enough; when I post them in there and save it and then view it; half the code disappears and I just see a bunch of code pieces printed there at the bottom of the blog column.

I know I'm asking a lot of stuff here, but I've played with this for over a month now trying to get it right. Thanks for anyone that can help.

[xaraan]

<object type="application/x-shockwave-flash"
data="http://musicplayer.sourceforge.net/button/musicplayer_f6.swf?&autoplay=true&repeat=true&song_url=http://www.snapdrive.net/files/101001/Chris%20Cornell%20-%20Billie%20Jean.mp3&"
width="17" height="17">
<param name="movie"
value="http://musicplayer.sourceforge.net/button/musicplayer_f6.swf?&autoplay=true&repeat=true&song_url=http://www.snapdrive.net/files/101001/Chris%20Cornell%20-%20Billie%20Jean.mp3&" />
<img src="noflash.gif"
width="17" height="17" alt="" />
</object>


that's the code for the music player I was trying to add in there
It's just a little button player, something small that will fit.