Is it wrong for me to disagree? |
 Nov 25 2006, 10:59 PM
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okay, so i have this friend right. he's 18, graduated from high school, & leaving for the air force in january. we've been friends for three months maybe & we were pretty close, basically best friends. about two months ago he started telling me about this girl he liked. he told me about how they were really close and whatnot but she didn't wanna date him because he was leaving so soon & he was really heartbroken about it. yada yada yada, he finally told me how old she is. she's 14 which i have a major problem with. i know age isn't a big deal, but 18 and 14 is. he says it's not a problem to either of them and it's the "way she makes him feel" but i'm finding it hard to be a good friend & not let my opinions about it come out. what do you think? does it make me a bad friend that i'm not supportive of him?
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Nov 26 2006, 03:01 PM
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No, I think you're right to be concerned about the age difference and them not being able to be together. If I were you I wouldn't recommend that they date either, but I suppose you can't stop them. Tell him what you think and that you don't want him to get hurt, etc. And no one said you had to completely support him...just don't get nasty about the fact that you're iffy on the age difference.
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LyingEyes08 Is it wrong for me to disagree? Nov 25 2006, 10:59 PM
x1227x i think you should just tell him and be straight u... Nov 25 2006, 11:59 PM
rawr SOCK QUOTE(x1227x @ Nov 25 2006, 11:59 PM) i t... Nov 26 2006, 12:34 AM x_angawhomps Definitely give him your opinion o.o Nov 26 2006, 12:30 AM x1227x ^ yeah i know. but even if you disagree, you shoul... Nov 26 2006, 01:12 AM tainted_angel Friends support friends, but friends also tell the... Nov 26 2006, 01:22 AM a painefull euphoria give him your opinion
and be a honest friend
beaca... Nov 26 2006, 04:09 PM _sarcastic_ i think you did the right thing, telling him your ... Nov 27 2006, 12:51 AM hardxcoreL0VER You could also explain it like if he had a sister ... Nov 27 2006, 01:03 AM dancingkait i have a couple guy friends who are like that...th... Nov 29 2006, 10:00 PM LyingEyes08 thanks guys. i told him how i feel & he didn... Nov 30 2006, 03:36 PM Pl-dot-lS QUOTE(LyingEyes08 @ Nov 30 2006, 12:36 PM... Dec 2 2006, 12:22 PM ursedonah QUOTE(LyingEyes08 @ Nov 30 2006, 3:36 PM)... Dec 3 2006, 11:55 AM ursedonah i know where i live, an 18 year old dating a 14 ye... Dec 2 2006, 11:42 AM |
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