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Nov 24 2006, 05:33 PM
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okay so my best friend is going out with this guy
and this guy is always calling me and texting me we talk for hours and hours couple days ago he admitted he liked me and i liked him too im starting to fall in love witth him more and more and he said hes falling in love with me more and more too he asked me out the other day and i said yes but my best friend doesnt know anything about this like half of me doesnt want me to mess up what they have and the other half wants me to be with him i know its wrong but i dont know what to do what should i do |
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Nov 24 2006, 10:18 PM
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i don't want to sound mean but the guy is not worth it. first of all, she's your best friend. you could potentially ruin your friendship. second of all, your best friend and this guy are still together. what makes you think it's okay for him to ask you out and for you to accept? at least have the decency to wait for them to break up and for the hurt to lessen. if you really didn't want to ruin what they had, you wouldn't have accepted when he hasn't broken things off yet.
if this guy could get together with you while he's with another girl, he probably has the ability to do it to you in the future. |
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Nov 25 2006, 04:02 AM
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i don't want to sound mean but the guy is not worth it. first of all, she's your best friend. you could potentially ruin your friendship. second of all, your best friend and this guy are still together. what makes you think it's okay for him to ask you out and for you to accept? at least have the decency to wait for them to break up and for the hurt to lessen. if you really didn't want to ruin what they had, you wouldn't have accepted when he hasn't broken things off yet. if this guy could get together with you while he's with another girl, he probably has the ability to do it to you in the future. ^^ my point exactly hes not one to be trusted. and that was a really bad friendship move i might add by chosing him over your best friend feelings for him or not a girls rule of life is to never be the other woman of your best friends relationship. |
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spongeboblover problem Nov 24 2006, 05:33 PM
SixChamberedHeart I really do hate to say this, but it looks more or... Nov 24 2006, 06:15 PM
spongeboblover i think its gone down the shit hole too
since he w... Nov 24 2006, 06:23 PM
SimplicityGirl The way I see it is: if he could do that to your f... Nov 24 2006, 08:37 PM
x1227x QUOTEI really do hate to say this, but it looks mo... Nov 24 2006, 10:03 PM
reganstiletto wait, so they are still dating and you said yes an... Nov 24 2006, 11:18 PM
lyin_in_wait stay away from him. thats your best friend now...w... Nov 25 2006, 12:43 PM
tainted_angel IMO, I think you did wrong. Badly. Boys come and g... Nov 25 2006, 01:07 PM
_sarcastic_ i agree with everyone.
forget about this guy, if h... Nov 26 2006, 02:21 AM![]() ![]() |