WHY iS iT ALWAYS LiKE THiS?!?! Options

[sexiiprchik1]

OKAY ... where do i begin . i liked this guy.. who was involved in drugs and stuff his friends were part of it too but he didnt really smoke a lot. but ne ways.. okay so i liked this kid for a long time and i told my friend if she can talk to her ex to see whats the deal because we [me and the guy that i like] would lock eyes and stuff. so we were debating if i should tell him that i like him or not [ didnt tell him] .. then i found his myspace and i added him as a myspace friend.. i sent him a message saying that i wanted to get to know him and if he had a screename [not the brighest idea]. okay so he read it and didnt respond. so i was like okay whatever no biggie. so.. again we were thinking if i should tell him or not again.. so i was going to do it but i wasnt going to tell him i was going to tell my friend's ex... and i spoke with her about it and we were texting each other in class and i told her that i was going to tell her ex b/f and nd she was like okay but then i thought about it real good and i was like na.. so i texted her saying no.. im not going to tell him and don u tell him either.. so okay wat does she do.. she asked her ex b/f if he knows me and wa he thinks of me and then he was like she iight and she was like wat if she liked one of your friends and he was like who [his name]. and then he was like he[guy i like] thinks she's funny looking and that i shouldn't be wearing the clothes that i wear and that he cracks on and that the guy that i like starts the jokes.. and im reading this from a text message and im hurt one because wa i was reading and because she went and told him when i told her not too. so from then on my friends ex boyfriend told him what happened and when i would pass by him or when i went outside for lunch my friends ex b/f would b like oo look ur grl is here.. she likes u.. ooh REALLY iMMATURE!! So i jus let it ride through and i was like f**k it.. and f**k him. so now that im over it.. i see him everywhere now! i mean by my locker and during my classes and shit.. im like wtf?!!? i mean it probably means nothing but i jus find it to be so weird... like okay... u cracked jokes on me and now im ova u and now i see you everywhere.. i mean i think i saw him by my house once.. well near my block.. it looked jus like him! for example... i was outside with my friends and i was hanging out... and i was laying on this dude and i see him walk by like 4 or 5 times looking at my guy friend hard as hell.. like he was guna do something. so then i got off of him and then he passes by again and then he calls my guy friend ova and is like f**k you but playing around cause they are cool but i didnt know that but if u is cool with my guy friend then why were you staring him down? hmmm.. u see it doesnt click... and why is that.. when im done with you i see you everywhere.. and why is it that when u like sum1 and they don like u bac... u get ova it and then they start to like u and then u don like them???? ahhh its jus a big confusion!! maybe im jus reading too much into it.. what do you think?

[SarahxJoy]

Okay, so I see it as: Things happened with your friend and her ex-boyfriend through text messages and stuff. Her ex-boyfriend told the guy you used to like that you were into him, and now that you're over him because he's immature, it seems like he could possibly now like you?

My advice: Just let it be. If he starts liking you now after being so immature and you're already over him, I don't see any reason for you to go back. Especially if he was being a jerk and saying things like that.

Find a new guy. Possibly the guy you were laying with?