Lesbian/Bisexual, Experiences, thoughts, etc. |
Lesbian/Bisexual, Experiences, thoughts, etc. |
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So, yeah. The title's kinda self explanitory.
I was wondering what girls here are lesbian or bisexual, when they realized they were bi, and their coming out story. If you're not lesbian or bisexual, then just give your thoughts. Personally, I'm bisexual. I guess I've known it for my whole life. I remember being on the beach when I was real young and I saw some really fine chick walk by in a bikini. And I remember coming out to my cousin and brother when I was also really young. I remember a bunch of lesbian thoughts from when I was younger. Then I realized that, to a point, it was fairly socially unexpectable. So I denied it to myself and didn't tell anyone. Then I remember just laying on the couch watching Zoro with my mom and when Zoro was slashing off Cathrine Zeta-Jone's dress, all I wanted was for him to slash off more. Then I just admited it to myself and I didn't care. I came out officially in 8th grade. Including my parents. No one cared. So it's all good. Now I'm in 10th grade and I'm the best known bisexual/lesbian in my grade at the very least. So yeah. What about you guys? |
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I've been questioning for over a year now, and I've pretty much decided that I'm bisexual, just more attracted to guys.
It all started when I realized that I was developing a crush on one of my friends, which also made me realize that I had been looking at girls a bit differently lately. I tried to convince myself that it was just going to be a phase, but it became clear that this just wasn't going to go away. She gave me butterflies, and I would lose my breath if I saw a girl that was really attractive. I didn't want to come out to anyone in case it was just a phase. But eventually I told my lesbian friend, who supported me and made me face the reality that it probably isn't just a phase. When I would hang out with people outside of my town, they were always cool with it, and talking about it made me feel more comfortable, that it was just who I really was. I'm still being a wuss about coming out to anyone in my town because I'm afraid that they won't believe me. Bisexuality is being questioned so much now, and so many people think it's for attention, especially my dad, which makes it so hard. But hopefully, one day I'll get the balls to do it. I have a boyfriend now, and what's kind of ironic is that everyone thinks he's the one who's gay (stupid stereotypes). How funny that it turns out I'm the one... (EDIT) I came out to my best friend the other day, and it turns out that she's bisexual, too! Haha, that was the most unexpected thing ever. |
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