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gOODpIRATE
post Nov 11 2006, 11:34 PM
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guys i have a major problem. i am REALLY SHY.

SUPER SUPER SUPER SHY. it's like im afriad to wave hi to people because i'm scared or looking stupid, plus other things you can imagine a shy person doing.

how can i just come out of my shell and let everyone see how funny and stupid (<haha) i am?
 
 
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post Nov 11 2006, 11:51 PM
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Well, when you said you don't want to wave hi to people because you think you'll look stupid made me think that you're insecure. Trust me, I used to be really shy. I still kind of am. But as I became more comfortable with myself and what's around me I also became more outgoing. I've said hi to people in the halls at school and they didn't even hear me, I guess it's just one of those things you shrug off.

The one thing I think that makes a person outgoing is confidence, and people who have confidence are more comfortable with themselves. I still have a lot of trouble talking to people I don't know and I get really shy when I'm not familiar with the people and things around me, but you'll never know if you don't put yourself out there. You need to challange yourself to be more outgoing.
 

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gOODpIRATE   shy....   Nov 11 2006, 11:34 PM
WHIMSICAL 0NE   Well, when you said you don't want to wave hi ...   Nov 11 2006, 11:51 PM
happykmd   I have the same problem. I'm not as bad as I u...   Nov 11 2006, 11:55 PM
angel_revelation   i'm slowly growing out of my shyness... i kin...   Nov 12 2006, 06:32 PM
magicfann   dont be shy - touch their dirt   Nov 12 2006, 07:05 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   Wave like ... it's nothing. Wave like ... no o...   Nov 12 2006, 07:47 PM
a painefull euphoria   you have to gain confidence in your self before yo...   Nov 12 2006, 09:35 PM
yanners   Well, maybe you should try something new every day...   Nov 13 2006, 12:38 AM
jennypie   pick up some hobbies. join some clubs, meet people...   Nov 13 2006, 03:56 AM
Mr. Slowjamz   QUOTE(jennypie @ Nov 13 2006, 3:56 AM) pi...   Nov 14 2006, 08:48 AM
Arjuna Capulong   I'd say, get more involved in community type t...   Nov 13 2006, 04:45 PM
Say what? Say me.   I guess you have two options. 1. You can slowly ...   Nov 13 2006, 10:32 PM
layli   you know what quote, "If you ask a question y...   Nov 14 2006, 02:30 AM
tropicalchic   I've been down that road, absolutly hated it. ...   Nov 16 2006, 10:44 PM
seremela_culnamo   I'm still shy, but people said I was a lot mor...   Nov 19 2006, 12:13 AM
You deny me!   I've always been the odd one of my family, and...   Nov 19 2006, 10:18 AM
My Cinderella.   You're low on confidence. The key to getting r...   Nov 19 2006, 10:21 AM
Chessboxxa 101   so how do you gain confidence then?   Dec 15 2006, 05:56 PM
Uronacid   You have to just get over feeling stupid, and do s...   Dec 15 2006, 08:13 PM


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