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 Oct 27 2006, 09:10 AM
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 ELAYOHJAY [:  Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 474,328  |
well yeah.. there is this one guy he likes me supposedly... and i like him kinda. im 50/50 about him. one 50 is that he's sweet and everything.. but the other 50 is that he is you know one of those kind of guys that are just get in trouble all the time. i dont know what to do about him cuhz` my friends tell me he's gonna ask me out on my birthday, next monday. please HELP another girl out.
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Nov 6 2006, 09:50 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,106 |
acctually no...guys who are after sex wont be overly sweet to u and listen to ur problems. Guys who are after sex are much smoother than that...all guys who know anything about girls realise you cant come on strong with compliments and adoration...its basic guy rules that u gotta keep a little mysterious and hard to get...compliments will only dig you into a hole once she sees herself as above you. Compliments in the early stages of flirting is 4 ametuers.
PLayers will get it in 2 or 3 weeks max and will seal the deal with little more than flirting and some kino, this guy is talkin about how hes 'gonna ask her out' and building it up like its a big deal. hes just a good intentioned kid I reckon...who should stop smoking before it rots his brain. |
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Nov 6 2006, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE(strcrft @ Nov 6 2006, 9:50 PM)  acctually no...guys who are after sex wont be overly sweet to u and listen to ur problems. Guys who are after sex are much smoother than that...all guys who know anything about girls realise you cant come on strong with compliments and adoration...its basic guy rules that u gotta keep a little mysterious and hard to get...compliments will only dig you into a hole once she sees herself as above you. Compliments in the early stages of flirting is 4 ametuers. EYYYAH no.  i think you might want to rephrase that to SOME guys. believe me i have heard PLENTY of relationship issues on CB to know that most of the girls have troubles over guys who were so sweet and treating them like a princess, they have sex and then its over. And not all girls like "mysterious guys" that are "hard to get" i happend to like guys who compliment me and would do anything for me. AND I NEVER see a guy below me, and i would never take advantage of him just because he compliments me. ANYWAYS TO THE PROBLEM: girl if you have doubts you are obviously not ready for a realtionship with him. If you like someone you have no DOUBTS in your mind whatso ever that you want to be with them. if in the end you like him you need to tell him to change his ways of smoking weed because that is just TROUBLE. And if he is a class clown he obviously is screaming for attention so give him some attention. |
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joelley another guy problem. Oct 27 2006, 09:10 AM
Acid Bath Slayer You may want to elaborate on the idea of "get... Oct 27 2006, 12:01 PM mznikki yea ^ what kind of trouble maker? i mean it may ju... Oct 27 2006, 02:56 PM joelley skater type. he smokes weed but like not all the t... Oct 27 2006, 09:24 PM strcrft If hes sweet and listens to you...he is most likel... Nov 6 2006, 09:13 AM Acid Bath Slayer QUOTE(joelley @ Oct 27 2006, 8:24 PM) ska... Nov 6 2006, 07:04 PM
cheri_pi I'd say: Go out with him- he may very well be ... Nov 6 2006, 10:55 PM
a painefull euphoria id say go for it.
you always have the chance to ge... Nov 25 2006, 06:38 PM |
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