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outgoing people...HELP ME.
Rachellll
post Oct 15 2006, 09:42 PM
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Okay so basically I'm pretty outgoing, but never when I want to be or need to be the most. For example, I'm perfectly fine talking when there isn't someone I'm trying to impress, but when theres a guy involved that I like .. I just get all nervous and I can't even talk.

So anyways, there is this guy in my geometry class that I really like, but honestly? I don't think he'd ever notice me. And the thing of it is that I get so self conscious when I'm near a guy I like that I can't even talk to him. Anyways, so I like this guy and I want to talk to him..(he's a teachers assistant) and he usually sits at the teachers desk when the teachers talking, but when he's done talking, he moves to a seat behind me.. and we're going to change seats pretty soon so it wont be that easy to talk to him anymore and I want to before that. The thing of it is..I don't know what to say or when. and it's like... I need confidence to get a boyfriend and be noticed, but the only way I feel like I can get confidence is if I get a boyfriend and get noticed first...

I duno. I'm kind of new to all this. Anyone wanna help?
 
 
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post Oct 16 2006, 02:48 PM
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Both of these girls have given you good advice. Ask him for a pencil or a sheet of paper or something. If he gives it to you, then try to strike up a conversation with someone who sits near him that might catch his attention. Smile at him--smiles are infectious. Seriously. Remember that he's just a boy, he doesn't bite.
 
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post Nov 6 2006, 03:01 PM
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Seriously. Remember that he's just a boy, he doesn't bite.


exactly! and it's rude to not talk, so you know he would. tongue.gif
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