He likes me... BUT!!!!, Confusing.. :S Options

[dysfunctional_he...]

Well... this whole situation is a little immature, buttt...

About a month ago, I was with two of my friends, and we met this guy at the fair. He seemed interested in my two friends [who are WAYYYYYYY more prettier than me]. So... I went on the rides alone, while they went with the guy. During one of the rides, I lost my glasses. The guy, said that, if he found them, he'd give them to one my friends. I was supposed to get his email address before he left, but that didn't happen. The next day, I phoned my friend, and got his email address. I emailed him.. with my number, and the next day, he phoned me.

We've been talking ever since, and finally, I told him that I liked him, just straight out told him. He said he liked me too.

So yesterday, when I was online [so was the guy], my friend [one of the ones at the fair] came online. When she signed on, she didn't talk to me, but finally, after an hour of her not talking to me, she popped up randomly, and said, "would you ever date that guy we met from the fair?", and I said yes.

So... later on that night, I phoned him, and we talked about it. He said, 'hey, I was told by your friend, I should ask you out", so... being a girl, I started laughing a blushing. Then he said, 'but I'm worried about the friendship, and the distance." [he's about 45 minutes away].

Now... my question is... how can I get him to stop worrying about the friendship... and actually start getting into a relationship?

I mean... I really like this boy. It's not exactly love... yet. But he's really everything I'm looking for in a boy. He's funny, without being immature. He listens to your problems, he helps out. He compliments me [but I fish for them, lol]

So if any of you have an answer to my question, it'd be greatly appreciated if you shared it!

[OhMyAnniee]

Ask him out first as friends.
Say something like, "How about we try to go on a date? Like as close friends!" and then go from there.
If he enjoys himself, maybe he'll decide that he wants to actually be in a relationship with you.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

Ask him out first as friends.
Say something like, "How about we try to go on a date? Like as close friends!" and then go from there.
If he enjoys himself, maybe he'll decide that he wants to actually be in a relationship with you.

TOTALLY AGREEEE!!!!!


well the thing i would tell you NOT to do is push him into making a decesion you have to wait patiently and not rush anything or else he wont want anything.

wow your friends are crummy for leaving you behind just to hang out with a dude they just met....uhmmm they dont seem to be the best of friends..

and please in the name of CREATION dont put yourself down its really old now hearing it from alot of people...you will only be pretty if you believe it yourself as long as you see yourself in the mirror and compare yourself to other people and label yourself as ugly you will never be pretty. YOUR PRETTY YOU JUST HAVNT REALIZED IT.

GOOD LUCK!