He likes me... BUT!!!!, Confusing.. :S |
He likes me... BUT!!!!, Confusing.. :S |
Oct 31 2006, 01:48 PM
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Well... this whole situation is a little immature, buttt...
About a month ago, I was with two of my friends, and we met this guy at the fair. He seemed interested in my two friends [who are WAYYYYYYY more prettier than me]. So... I went on the rides alone, while they went with the guy. During one of the rides, I lost my glasses. The guy, said that, if he found them, he'd give them to one my friends. I was supposed to get his email address before he left, but that didn't happen. The next day, I phoned my friend, and got his email address. I emailed him.. with my number, and the next day, he phoned me. We've been talking ever since, and finally, I told him that I liked him, just straight out told him. He said he liked me too. So yesterday, when I was online [so was the guy], my friend [one of the ones at the fair] came online. When she signed on, she didn't talk to me, but finally, after an hour of her not talking to me, she popped up randomly, and said, "would you ever date that guy we met from the fair?", and I said yes. So... later on that night, I phoned him, and we talked about it. He said, 'hey, I was told by your friend, I should ask you out", so... being a girl, I started laughing a blushing. Then he said, 'but I'm worried about the friendship, and the distance." [he's about 45 minutes away]. Now... my question is... how can I get him to stop worrying about the friendship... and actually start getting into a relationship? I mean... I really like this boy. It's not exactly love... yet. But he's really everything I'm looking for in a boy. He's funny, without being immature. He listens to your problems, he helps out. He compliments me [but I fish for them, lol] So if any of you have an answer to my question, it'd be greatly appreciated if you shared it! |
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Oct 31 2006, 03:14 PM
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lmao well you cant push it! if u do then he might not want it. i suppose if your just reassuring him though. all you need to do is remind him that its only 45 min away. i have a bf myself who lives in virginia while i live here in hawaii (he's in virginia for college). and we manage to get by just fine. you guys will get to see each other often enough and if its a trust issue then if you two dont trust each other then yes i suggest you two not date. but yeahh. and as for the friendship thing. eh why settle for that when there could be more? i mean if you two like each other. go for it! if you two are truely good friends even after u break up things will be fine :] thats my advice ^__^
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xoxrawr_dinoxox He likes me... BUT!!!! Oct 31 2006, 01:48 PM
xoxrawr_dinoxox Hey, that's really good advice, thank you! Oct 31 2006, 03:39 PM
ashopely eh, if you push it you won't have that natural... Oct 31 2006, 03:55 PM
hardxcoreL0VER Ask him out first as friends.
Say something like, ... Oct 31 2006, 06:05 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Oct 31 2006, 6:05 ... Oct 31 2006, 10:40 PM
xmusic no problem ive been through stuff like that too. h... Oct 31 2006, 08:36 PM
xoxrawr_dinoxox Lol. I can't really tell him to ask me because... Oct 31 2006, 09:11 PM
Wo0yaPo0ya You don't have to make it a date. Just ask him... Nov 1 2006, 07:16 PM
strcrft OK first off im a guy...so feel free to ridicule m... Nov 6 2006, 08:34 AM![]() ![]() |