How do you let go of something you love?, when that person doesn't love you Options

[xxmisxtakexx]

It's hard. It's been 4 months since we broke up. I'm still madly in love.


What's a girl to do?

[purrfecto]

i think that for just one day, maybe over the weekend or something, you should do anything you can that reminds you of that person. lock yourself in a room, listen to music, hug a pillow, and cry until no tears are left. you could also look at old pictures, read over old letters, etc. or maybe you could use the treadmill and run. i often think about things while running, and it'll be good for you because you'd not only get a good exercise but also have a chance to think things over.

after that you'll probably not feel like moping over that person anymore (i think). a day later try to put all those things you've done that reminded you of the person in a hidden, hard-to-reach place. you've just spent an entire day thinking about all the good and bad times of the relationship, so it'd be wise to try and move on with life. go and watch a good movie, drink a milkshake or smoothie, go out with friends, or even do some schoolwork.

if nothing else works, just be grateful that you had the chance to have a relationship. make a mental note about what went wrong in the relationship so hopefully it would never happen again. over time you will get over this, and maybe you'll someone else who is 1000x better than the current person you're moping over.