Is it mean of me?, to secretly hate her? Options

[pinacoolada]

So I like this guy.
And since I like him, I started talking to him.
It went pretty well..we talked a lot, flirted a lot, and talked on the phone a lot. It was pretty awesome since we've just known each other for about a month.

But here's the catch.
His ex-gf (now gf again), is his best friend. They both still like each other and she started being mean to me. Then this week, I found out that they are going out again. And just like that, our connection suddenly was handicapped. Now..it's really awkward when we talk..etc. etc.

I hate her...because the fact that she didn't give me a shot at it when she had 2 tries with him before just seems selfish to me, although in reality, she's just following what she feels.
Maybe I'm jealous..I don't know. But now that he stopped initiating conversations, saying hi and all that crap, what do I do? Do I back off? Try to forget him? Or just wait since they've broken up twice before and it can happen again...?

Help?

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

gurl its your fault anyways by not being quick enough to get your man. from what i read your just jealous because that other gurl was quick enough to wisk her boyfriend away while you were still flirting/talking girl just move on! if he went out with his ex obviously he likes her and not you. i would suggest not be friends with him because it could get ugly if you keep being friends with him and his girlfriend found out.. im sure as hell i would not want my boyfriend talking with some girl who flirts with him.

good luck