rejection, still be friends like before? |
 Oct 19 2006, 08:28 PM
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 Peggy.  Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025  |
Whenever there is a guy friend liking me, and if I reject him, there is this sense of guilt in me that I couldn't do anything to him afterwards but to avoid him. I feel mean for doing so, is it possible to be friends like before? Everytime after rejection, I don't dare to look at him in my eye or else my guilt would be too overwhelming for me to reach out. He still reaches out, but I keep taking a step backward and I just intuitively be mean and blunt to him.
Any suggestions on how to reconcile after rejection? |
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Oct 20 2006, 01:35 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
i guess it depends on your relationship with the guy before he asked you out. if you guys were close friends and you explained you just wanted to be friends, there'd probably be a period of awkwardness. but yeah, if you guys wanted to stay friends it probably would work out.
i get how you feel though... recently, a guy i barely knew asked me out and positively sulked about it after i rejected him. we didn't stay friends because i got really annoyed at how he began sending me 329423904 text messages, IMs and in general, kept trying too hard to be best friends with me. i just needed a ton of space from him and he still doesn't get the message. i guess we used to be friends but now i feel the harder he tries the more i dislike him. |
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peggysturr rejection Oct 19 2006, 08:28 PM
**moonstruck** Hmm...This is a very interesting topic XD
Anyways... Oct 19 2006, 09:40 PM _sarcastic_ tell him you hope that the both of you would just ... Oct 20 2006, 12:33 AM **Lucy* I think it's extremely difficult.
Put yourself... Oct 20 2006, 04:52 AM QueenAkasha Pity is not a solution, in my opinion.
And what I ... Oct 20 2006, 05:25 PM beautiousmistake he probably doesn't think you're feeling g... Oct 20 2006, 06:39 PM a painefull euphoria things will be akward for a while untill he moves ... Nov 22 2006, 06:42 AM Wo0yaPo0ya I think you should give him a few days to feel bet... Nov 22 2006, 06:41 PM pinayprincess same... but now, we are friends... we arent close,... Nov 22 2006, 09:56 PM KielReese A true friend will never care....ever. They would ... Nov 23 2006, 05:40 AM
doomXL i dont know..my name is griffin...in case this is ... Nov 26 2006, 02:29 PM |
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