Virginity Testing |
 Oct 19 2006, 07:32 PM
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 What the fack.  Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519  |
I searched and I found no topics on this subject, so here goes..
Okay, so I'm trying to help out my friend. She's seventeen years old and her and her boyfriend of ten and a half months have had sex. But only twice, and this happened within the last two months. Apparently her mother suspects that she's no longer a virgin and is threatening to get her checked. My friend doesn't want her mom to find out or else she might get kicked out of the house or something along those lines.  I told her that they would mainly check to see if her hymen was intact. But we all know that checking the hymen isn't a very reliable source for indicating a female's virginity. You can break your hymen by certain physical activities, the use of a tampon (right?), and some girls are even born without hymens. She asked me if there was any other way that they can tell if you're a virgin or not, besides examining a girl's hymen. And well..I don't know. Is there?  My friend was freaking out and wouldn't stop crying over the phone.
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Oct 19 2006, 08:34 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
Wow. Just an opinion, but I don't believe in sex before marriage. It was a mistake to have sex with her boyfriend. Don't lie to your parents; they are the best source of help possible.
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Oct 19 2006, 08:47 PM
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QUOTE(**moonstruck** @ Oct 19 2006, 8:34 PM)  Wow. Just an opinion, but I don't believe in sex before marriage. It was a mistake to have sex with her boyfriend. Don't lie to your parents; they are the best source of help possible. saying that it was a mistake is an opinion as well... as is saying that they are the best source of help possible. usually, parents mean well, but it seems that you've never had your parents pissed off enough to kick you out - whereas, i have, and it looks like this girl we're talking about could as well. why is her mom threatening her to get checked? what does she want her to do, say "all right, i did it with whoever?"  my parents thought i had sex as well (but i didn't) and had me go to a doctor who pronounced me as "normal." i have no idea if my hymen's there or not, because i don't exactly check. my mom thought that was good enough though. |
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tainted_angel Virginity Testing Oct 19 2006, 07:32 PM
Infinite. I don't think so. Even if she goes to a doctor... Oct 19 2006, 07:44 PM mznikki it is true that tampons can break someone's hy... Oct 19 2006, 07:45 PM funk.this I used to ride horses religiously and that's h... Oct 19 2006, 08:07 PM tainted_angel So they don't check for anything else other th... Oct 19 2006, 08:32 PM
funk.this QUOTE(**moonstruck** @ Oct 19 2006, 8:34 ... Oct 19 2006, 08:58 PM **moonstruck** Yeahh..I meant all of it to be an opinion... Oct 19 2006, 08:50 PM tainted_angel ^I have to agree.. Besides, I was asking about vir... Oct 19 2006, 09:06 PM xcaitlinx QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Oct 19 2006, 10:06 ... Oct 20 2006, 05:08 PM **moonstruck** ^understood.
Anyways, I suggest she goes to a cli... Oct 19 2006, 09:26 PM funk.this ^ She's talking about a VIRGINITY test, not a ... Oct 19 2006, 09:48 PM suddenly she ^lawl, yes. vigorous masturbation is always someth... Oct 19 2006, 09:52 PM icy_wonderland There's no other way to find out if you're... Oct 19 2006, 09:56 PM tainted_angel ^ Other than being truthful, I suppose note.
QUO... Oct 19 2006, 10:07 PM Infinite. So I guess all of this was solved. Although Moonst... Oct 20 2006, 03:45 PM tainted_angel No, you can get tears and scars from masturbation.... Oct 20 2006, 08:23 PM |
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