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 Oct 15 2006, 09:42 PM
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Okay so basically I'm pretty outgoing, but never when I want to be or need to be the most. For example, I'm perfectly fine talking when there isn't someone I'm trying to impress, but when theres a guy involved that I like .. I just get all nervous and I can't even talk.
So anyways, there is this guy in my geometry class that I really like, but honestly? I don't think he'd ever notice me. And the thing of it is that I get so self conscious when I'm near a guy I like that I can't even talk to him. Anyways, so I like this guy and I want to talk to him..(he's a teachers assistant) and he usually sits at the teachers desk when the teachers talking, but when he's done talking, he moves to a seat behind me.. and we're going to change seats pretty soon so it wont be that easy to talk to him anymore and I want to before that. The thing of it is..I don't know what to say or when. and it's like... I need confidence to get a boyfriend and be noticed, but the only way I feel like I can get confidence is if I get a boyfriend and get noticed first... I duno. I'm kind of new to all this. Anyone wanna help? |
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Oct 15 2006, 11:41 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
Haha, I've used to be like that, I'd see an attractive guy and wouldn't have the guts to talk to him.
Basically, what I did was strike up a conversation with the person next to me whenever he was near me and try to make it loud enough for him to pick up on. Most of the time, if what we were talking about was interesting or controversial enough, he'd join in and we'd hit it off. After the first conversation, everything gets a million times easier. Idk, I kind of got over that awkward stage around guys a year or so into high school. I guess I stopped caring about impressing them. |
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Rachellll outgoing people...HELP ME. Oct 15 2006, 09:42 PM
hardxcoreL0VER Well, if he sits behind you, ask him for a pencil ... Oct 15 2006, 11:05 PM femme_fatale4160 Both of these girls have given you good advice. A... Oct 16 2006, 02:48 PM
ashopely QUOTE(femme_fatale4160 @ Oct 16 2006, 2:4... Nov 6 2006, 03:01 PM strcrft wow these girls are given u good advice here....I ... Nov 6 2006, 09:34 AM hixfive yeah..same problem here
i just cant seem to make e... Nov 6 2006, 03:59 PM _sarcastic_ i agree with them, the overhearing one is the smar... Nov 6 2006, 07:09 PM xlitoxb .. I suppose I should say something that the other... Nov 6 2006, 07:21 PM seremela_culnamo Find any excuse to talk to him. If he's talkin... Nov 8 2006, 06:38 PM iROCKYOURSOCKS wink at him and blow kisses...lol j/k
uhm just st... Nov 8 2006, 07:41 PM magicfann ask him to touch your dirt Nov 8 2006, 09:41 PM |
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