parents...., your boyfriends/girlfriends parents Options

[mrsnoll]

i don't know if this is a topic already and if so, please direct me to where I can find it-otherwise I'm starting this

Recently I was practically bitched out by my boyfriend's mother and I know I didn't deserve it . It was all a misuderstanding and she acted like a 2 year old, screaming at me because she was having a bad morning . She started lecturing me about Judgment Day (God) and about how her son had changed because of me...and basically she was telling me it was my fault even though she didn't say it, she implied it. So I yelled back because that was my first reaction for getting yelled at. So we argued like that for 15 minutes at 7:00 in the morning. May I include how juvenile she was really acting-as soon I hung up with her, I raced downstairs cause I knew the first thing she was going to do was call my mother and tattle like a first grader. So I hung up on her BOTH times-it was horrible because I was shaking and crying the whole way to school . And I for one don't think I deserve her an apology but I deserve one from her...
I may have gotten out of line but seriously, no need to act like your 10 years old, not getting your way about something.
has anyone else had problems like these?
you know, with your boyfriend or girlfriend's parents not like you at all? Disrespecting you in any way, cause somehow I feel alone in this situation.

[smoke]

(By the way, I'm mrs noll's boyfriend if you didn't know )

can i say i disagree with that 110%! i truly believe that if you want respect then you need to give it and if you dont give it dont expect it.

Exactly. I agree with you 120%. haha. Just because some one's older doesn't mean anything. Especially in a situation like this when she's clearly in the wrong. I don't care how old you are, wrong is wrong. I'm not gonna kiss your butt and back down if you're attacking me with idiotic statements and fallacies. Sure, wisdom comes with age, but there's plenty of ignorance to balance it out. That goes for all of us. My girlfriend has always respected my mother. even when she got on the phone that day she was very respectful. My mother was the one who disrespected Jessica first so according to that statement, Jessica had every right to disrespect her right back.

Anyway, my mom is the one who yelled at Jessica and I should know my mom better than anyone else. It's not Jessica's fault. She's done nothing but respect her. My mother has no right to sit there at yell at my girlfriend for nothing. What happened was my mom called me a liar when I [u]was not[/i] lying and she does that ALL the time. She doesn't even have a reason to. Usually I just take it but I got mad this time because I am so fed up with it. So Jess called me to say good morning and I told her what happened and she asked to talk to my mom so I let her. The only reason my mother yelled at her was because Jessica was standing up for me and simply voicing her opinion. My mom's all fine and dandy until you cross her. She doesn't think she's ever wrong.

I'm just glad Jessica's parents both love me. They don't like my mom either. They think something is not right with her mentally. I think she may have a mild case of bipolar.