parents...., your boyfriends/girlfriends parents Options

[mrsnoll]

i don't know if this is a topic already and if so, please direct me to where I can find it-otherwise I'm starting this

Recently I was practically bitched out by my boyfriend's mother and I know I didn't deserve it . It was all a misuderstanding and she acted like a 2 year old, screaming at me because she was having a bad morning . She started lecturing me about Judgment Day (God) and about how her son had changed because of me...and basically she was telling me it was my fault even though she didn't say it, she implied it. So I yelled back because that was my first reaction for getting yelled at. So we argued like that for 15 minutes at 7:00 in the morning. May I include how juvenile she was really acting-as soon I hung up with her, I raced downstairs cause I knew the first thing she was going to do was call my mother and tattle like a first grader. So I hung up on her BOTH times-it was horrible because I was shaking and crying the whole way to school . And I for one don't think I deserve her an apology but I deserve one from her...
I may have gotten out of line but seriously, no need to act like your 10 years old, not getting your way about something.
has anyone else had problems like these?
you know, with your boyfriend or girlfriend's parents not like you at all? Disrespecting you in any way, cause somehow I feel alone in this situation.

[ladychobit]

You probably would've done better to control yourself and not lower yourself to her level and yell back at her.
ESPECIALLY since she's your boyfriends mom and Lord knows how moms are about their sons.
Yes, it was very, VERY wrong of her to yell at you for no apparent reason.
But you really should have respected her because 1.) Like it or not, she's your elder and automatically deserves some respect; 2.) She's your boyfriend's mom and you should really try your best to get her to like you. Yelling at her when she takes her bad mood out on you is not the answer.

Despite the fact that she yelled at you and you two got into a huge argument, you should try and kill her with kindness, that way she looks like the fool instead of the two of you arguing like children.

[youknowrachel]

Like it or not, she's your elder and automatically deserves some respect;

can i say i disagree with that 110%! i truly believe that if you want respect then you need to give it and if you dont give it dont expect it. good job for standing up for yourself just dont piss her off too much... shes his mom and she could ban him from you haha