parents...., your boyfriends/girlfriends parents Options

[mrsnoll]

i don't know if this is a topic already and if so, please direct me to where I can find it-otherwise I'm starting this

Recently I was practically bitched out by my boyfriend's mother and I know I didn't deserve it . It was all a misuderstanding and she acted like a 2 year old, screaming at me because she was having a bad morning . She started lecturing me about Judgment Day (God) and about how her son had changed because of me...and basically she was telling me it was my fault even though she didn't say it, she implied it. So I yelled back because that was my first reaction for getting yelled at. So we argued like that for 15 minutes at 7:00 in the morning. May I include how juvenile she was really acting-as soon I hung up with her, I raced downstairs cause I knew the first thing she was going to do was call my mother and tattle like a first grader. So I hung up on her BOTH times-it was horrible because I was shaking and crying the whole way to school . And I for one don't think I deserve her an apology but I deserve one from her...
I may have gotten out of line but seriously, no need to act like your 10 years old, not getting your way about something.
has anyone else had problems like these?
you know, with your boyfriend or girlfriend's parents not like you at all? Disrespecting you in any way, cause somehow I feel alone in this situation.

[Chii]

Parents always dislike me because I'm shy and that comes off as rude.
But some go too far. Whenever I was with one of my ex's room with him, his mom would always say that the room stank and was disgusting. Once, they got in a fight and I started to cry and then she was like "Why is she crying? She's wasting my tissues." His grandmother was always rude to my face "Why is she here? Tell her to go home and that she doesn't live here." and "You're not wanted here."
Once, his mom practically interrogated me. She said she wanted to speak to me alone, lead me to the living room and asked me about my entire life, she didn't leave any stones unturned: What kind of Chinese are you? How old are you? What grade are you in? What school do you go to? What do your parents do? How old are they? Do you know how [ex bf]'s grades are? How are you improving his grades? Do you honestly think that he has a future?

I was never intentionally rude to them. I'm the type of person who doesn't speak unless spoken too. They always complained that I don't greet them, they never greeted me!

Yes it was bad that you yelled at her but it's better than just taking it lying down. I probably would have just cried. I don't think I have ever yelled at any grown up/parents.