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 Oct 9 2006, 01:34 AM
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is it a right thing if your bf constantly reminds you on how he'd dump you if you don't do well in school. or that he keeps pushing you and lecturing you to get As and Bs. he's the kind of guy that overachieves...
my bf is driving me crazy right now and i don't know what to do. he says it's some kind of motivation but to me its more like a pressure and i don't work well with pressure. i've tried telling him to loosen up abit and he says he will but he doesn't. |
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Oct 12 2006, 09:38 AM
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I thought about this for a while now... You feel as if this isn't working for you. You are young. There are pleanty of other guys out there in the world. You have already told him to stop. You know that whatever he is doing really isn't benefiting you at all (It only makes you do worse because you get stressed out.). Why don't you just lay down the law. Your obviously not happy. If he isn't willing to ease up, end your relationship with him.
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Oct 12 2006, 06:47 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Oct 12 2006, 9:38 AM)  I thought about this for a while now... You feel as if this isn't working for you. You are young. There are pleanty of other guys out there in the world. You have already told him to stop. You know that whatever he is doing really isn't benefiting you at all (It only makes you do worse because you get stressed out.). Why don't you just lay down the law. Your obviously not happy. If he isn't willing to ease up, end your relationship with him. WORD.  tell him you know that not everyone in the world is gonna think like him or do the same things he does because if he hasnt notice you guys and everyone else are diffrent. SO WHAT if your grades might be bad thats a thing for your parents and YOU to worry about not him. hes not your father, husband or anything but YOUR boyfriend. but i can understand where he is coming from but hes taking everthing really seriously. you need to talk to him because i know that your boyfriend does have good intentions he wants you to not get so caught up in your guys realtionship and do well at skool so you can have a future ( so you need to step it up girl and get those grades not for your realtionship but your FUTURE.) . just tell him to stop pressuring you and that you are doing what you can and if he keeps it up YOU are going to be the one ending the realtionship. |
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_sarcastic_ stressed. Oct 9 2006, 01:34 AM
**Lucy* Oh my heck! Why he does this to u? Just tell h... Oct 9 2006, 04:34 AM
magicfann QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Oct 9 2006, 5:34 AM) Oh m... Oct 9 2006, 10:47 AM &/degradanca. i don't know... i don't really think your ... Oct 9 2006, 06:37 AM ashopely QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Oct 9 2006, 7:3... Oct 11 2006, 05:00 PM **Lucy* ^ Umm what's wrong w/ "Oh my heck"? Oct 9 2006, 10:54 AM mipadi QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Oct 9 2006, 11:54 AM) ^ U... Oct 9 2006, 01:10 PM **Lucy* QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 9 2006, 7:10 PM) Well,... Oct 10 2006, 04:10 AM xostolenkissezox my boyfriend does the same thing to me and i just ... Oct 9 2006, 07:32 PM hardxcoreL0VER Well if he overachieves and he's pushing YOU, ... Oct 9 2006, 07:57 PM Uronacid QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 9 2006, 2:34 AM) ... Oct 10 2006, 10:11 PM rAwritsgWeg *Im not siding with anyone*
Hmm maybe he's tel... Oct 10 2006, 10:42 PM SimplicityGirl I think it's kind of mean of him to tell you h... Oct 10 2006, 10:57 PM suddenly she QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 9 2006, 1:34 AM) ... Oct 10 2006, 11:14 PM rAwritsgWeg Yea, If he is threatening to dump you for grades H... Oct 11 2006, 12:48 AM cvchango I don't believe he's trying to make you as... Oct 12 2006, 03:11 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo Wtf how gay.. It is your life live it the way you ... Oct 12 2006, 03:57 PM Anna Banana =} QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 9 2006, 2:34 AM) ... Oct 12 2006, 04:18 PM Infinite. ^To be honest, I don't think saying that he do... Oct 12 2006, 04:45 PM _sarcastic_ wow those are some good advice...
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