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 Oct 9 2006, 01:34 AM
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is it a right thing if your bf constantly reminds you on how he'd dump you if you don't do well in school. or that he keeps pushing you and lecturing you to get As and Bs. he's the kind of guy that overachieves...
my bf is driving me crazy right now and i don't know what to do. he says it's some kind of motivation but to me its more like a pressure and i don't work well with pressure. i've tried telling him to loosen up abit and he says he will but he doesn't. |
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Oct 12 2006, 04:45 PM
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^To be honest, I don't think saying that he doesn't care is the right approch, that could be going as far as saying something that isn't true, which is assuming things which is never good.
Just tell him how you feel and think as others have said. In my opinion, him telling you hes going to break up with you if your grades drop isn't the right thing to say at all, you need to tell him that it stresses you out with him saying it, which is going to make you have your grades drop. He needs to understand that. If it gets to overwhelming, take a break. Get him to back off a bit, and after the break is over talk to him about it and if he doesn't change, then perhaps it wasn't the right person. -shrugs- Your young, theres plenty of others out there. I mean if he doesn't want your grades to drop and you need help or your having trouble then get him to help you if hes so worried. |
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_sarcastic_ stressed. Oct 9 2006, 01:34 AM
**Lucy* Oh my heck! Why he does this to u? Just tell h... Oct 9 2006, 04:34 AM
magicfann QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Oct 9 2006, 5:34 AM) Oh m... Oct 9 2006, 10:47 AM &/degradanca. i don't know... i don't really think your ... Oct 9 2006, 06:37 AM ashopely QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Oct 9 2006, 7:3... Oct 11 2006, 05:00 PM **Lucy* ^ Umm what's wrong w/ "Oh my heck"? Oct 9 2006, 10:54 AM mipadi QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Oct 9 2006, 11:54 AM) ^ U... Oct 9 2006, 01:10 PM **Lucy* QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 9 2006, 7:10 PM) Well,... Oct 10 2006, 04:10 AM xostolenkissezox my boyfriend does the same thing to me and i just ... Oct 9 2006, 07:32 PM hardxcoreL0VER Well if he overachieves and he's pushing YOU, ... Oct 9 2006, 07:57 PM Uronacid QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 9 2006, 2:34 AM) ... Oct 10 2006, 10:11 PM rAwritsgWeg *Im not siding with anyone*
Hmm maybe he's tel... Oct 10 2006, 10:42 PM SimplicityGirl I think it's kind of mean of him to tell you h... Oct 10 2006, 10:57 PM suddenly she QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 9 2006, 1:34 AM) ... Oct 10 2006, 11:14 PM rAwritsgWeg Yea, If he is threatening to dump you for grades H... Oct 11 2006, 12:48 AM Uronacid I thought about this for a while now... You feel a... Oct 12 2006, 09:38 AM iROCKYOURSOCKS QUOTE(Uronacid @ Oct 12 2006, 9:38 AM) I ... Oct 12 2006, 06:47 PM cvchango I don't believe he's trying to make you as... Oct 12 2006, 03:11 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo Wtf how gay.. It is your life live it the way you ... Oct 12 2006, 03:57 PM Anna Banana =} QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 9 2006, 2:34 AM) ... Oct 12 2006, 04:18 PM _sarcastic_ wow those are some good advice...
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