Who has more of an advantage. early bloomer or late bloomer?, A debate |
 Oct 4 2006, 06:56 PM
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Who is at more of an advantage growing up? The early bloomer or the late bloomer? My friend and I were debating this. She is my complete opposite far as puberty is concerned. LOL I hit puberty rather late. I am almost 15 now and still pretty much wearing a training bra and have just a little public hair. No hips no nothing. Changing in gym class is a terrible experience. I hate swimming. Boys treat me like their little sister. I look like a 5th grader and i've had to watch helplesslyas my friends grow breasts and get periods or whatnot and everything back in 5th and 6th grades. As a result, my self esteem is completely shot.
My friend argues that she had it worse, because she had started getting breasts at like 9 and had her period in the 4th grade. She hated being the only girl in her class wearing a bra. She was a busty 12-year-old. It was very hard on her. She tells me how lucky I am that i don't have to deal with a period every month. But with her everyone else eventually caught up. So I think she was better off. In the long run anyways. Thoughts? |
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Oct 11 2006, 07:39 PM
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i think both have their disadvantages...
early bloomers have awkwardness at the beginning because they're like the ONLY ones with boobs and whatnot, and they can be made fun of. and then later on guys start hitting on them which gets creepy since not many other girls have developed as much. but then afterwards everyone's at the same level. late bloomers don't have to deal with being awkward at first, but then when girls start developing and they don't, they feel like something's wrong with them, and chances are guys won't be attracted to them AS easily. |
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Lillyann Who has more of an advantage. early bloomer or late bloomer? Oct 4 2006, 06:56 PM
salcha4u Yeah this is like me and my sister. She got her pe... Oct 4 2006, 07:02 PM
Smoogrish QUOTE(salcha4u @ Oct 4 2006, 8:02 PM) Yea... Oct 9 2006, 06:21 PM sofakinglazy I say early bloomer. Oct 4 2006, 07:09 PM one_and_only both sound extreme...the average person changes in... Oct 4 2006, 07:17 PM helloxtine i don't really know... i think a late bloomer ... Oct 4 2006, 07:57 PM xcaitlinx i was in the same exact situation as your friend, ... Oct 5 2006, 06:02 AM Trinie late bloomer :-D Oct 5 2006, 07:45 AM Kirsti not as early as yoru friend but not as late as you... Oct 5 2006, 11:26 AM Summer Rain QUOTE(Kirsti @ Oct 5 2006, 12:26 PM) not ... Oct 5 2006, 07:21 PM Lillyann QUOTE(Kirsti @ Oct 5 2006, 8:26 AM) not a... Oct 8 2006, 11:09 PM tainted_angel QUOTE(Kirsti @ Oct 5 2006, 9:26 AM) not a... Oct 8 2006, 11:34 PM WHIMSICAL 0NE I'd rather have been an early bloomer. I would... Oct 5 2006, 05:32 PM Spiritual Winged Aura late bloomer.
so i wouldnt have to worry so much ... Oct 5 2006, 07:07 PM electric shock Well, both have their ups and downs differently.
... Oct 9 2006, 01:17 AM Infinite. You know it matters what you were, your always goi... Oct 9 2006, 06:47 PM **moonstruck** Early. You'd probably get made of if you didn... Oct 11 2006, 09:19 PM Youraisemeup im an easrly bloomer. I think its better to be ear... Oct 12 2006, 05:38 PM Wellz i think the late bloomer, which i might only be sa... Oct 13 2006, 05:27 PM funk.this i'd say the late.
i was an early bloomer and ... Oct 13 2006, 05:55 PM ladychobit Late bloomer.
You have a chance to develop a great... Oct 13 2006, 10:08 PM Lillyann Hmm... I guess we'll call it a draw then? Tha... Oct 23 2006, 03:00 PM xourzestt early bloom because you get to strut your stuff an... Oct 23 2006, 10:22 PM cheri_pi for boobies, it's better to be an early bloome... Oct 24 2006, 06:02 PM just another teenage dirtbag hmm........idk im an early bloomer but i just come... Oct 24 2006, 07:26 PM malimars Yeah I only got my period when I was 16 and for Br... Oct 24 2006, 08:26 PM Nekostarrrrr An early bloomer like me!!
Although some ... Oct 25 2006, 04:41 PM bonnyvae I think a lot of times early bloomers get all thei... Dec 4 2006, 10:03 PM Crestfallen Shadow I actually heard that the later you get your perio... Dec 4 2006, 10:12 PM ldyxluvable i wouldnt like to suffer i sayy late bloomer Jan 17 2007, 01:09 AM hixfive i think you have more experience when you an early... Jan 17 2007, 05:39 PM |
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