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is it a right thing if your bf constantly reminds you on how he'd dump you if you don't do well in school. or that he keeps pushing you and lecturing you to get As and Bs. he's the kind of guy that overachieves...
my bf is driving me crazy right now and i don't know what to do. he says it's some kind of motivation but to me its more like a pressure and i don't work well with pressure. i've tried telling him to loosen up abit and he says he will but he doesn't. |
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my bf is driving me crazy right now and i don't know what to do. he says it's some kind of motivation but to me its more like a pressure and i don't work well with pressure. i've tried telling him to loosen up abit and he says he will but he doesn't. motivation, my ass! as my former humanities teacher used to put it "pain is very effective. if i told john i'd cut off his left pinky if he didn't get a perfect score on his quiz, he'd probably get a perfect score on his quiz." that's basically what your boyfriend's doing. what does he love, you or your grades? sure, he's probably doing it because he cares about you, but threatening to leave you because of imperfect scores? lame. dump him. |
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