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is it a right thing if your bf constantly reminds you on how he'd dump you if you don't do well in school. or that he keeps pushing you and lecturing you to get As and Bs. he's the kind of guy that overachieves...
my bf is driving me crazy right now and i don't know what to do. he says it's some kind of motivation but to me its more like a pressure and i don't work well with pressure.
i've tried telling him to loosen up abit and he says he will but he doesn't.

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is it a right thing if your bf constantly reminds you on how he'd dump you if you don't do well in school. or that he keeps pushing you and lecturing you to get As and Bs. he's the kind of guy that overachieves...
my bf is driving me crazy right now and i don't know what to do. he says it's some kind of motivation but to me its more like a pressure and i don't work well with pressure.
i've tried telling him to loosen up abit and he says he will but he doesn't.

Tell him not to worry about your grades. Of course, they are important. Sometimes I even help Holy with her homework, but I don't think it's my responsibility to disipline her when her grades drop. Although, I would feel bad if it were my fault. :P

Like the previous girl said, "He's your boyfriend, and not your Dad." He can encourage you to get good grades or help you to achieve good grades, but if he's throwing your relationship in your face whenever you get a "D" I think you need to sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel. Explain to him that you appriciate the fact that he cares about your grades and future, but that threatening you isn't going to work. It puts you under alot of pressure, and creates an environment where you end up doing worse because you can't think straight under all of the pressure.