my best firend..our relationship is slipping...i dont wnat to lose her!, im a guy btw..please help me! |
my best firend..our relationship is slipping...i dont wnat to lose her!, im a guy btw..please help me! |
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last week she was all over me and couldnt keep her hands off me...we talked alot during summer and now its school and she was all over me at first...but i never realy paid her much attention and she finaly flipped day before yesterday and asked when i walked by why i acted like i didnt even know her...i admit (but not to her) that i do do this...and now she ignores me ...we are just firneds but it was definalty closer than just normal firends...evry time i used to see her she woudl alway ye;l out my name and was so happy...now shes not saying a thing and just take a looka t me and leave..whyywhat should i do...i dont want to lose her :/...i remeber she would tell me how she loves me and stuff and invite me to her volleyball games (she woudl only invite me and her bf, like her bestt friend and her bf i suposer :]) and whatever...she didnt invite me to go watch her game this week, i only talked to her at the bigining of the week...the rest she ignoreing me right in front of my face...i still ignore her, i havnt talked to her upfront about it but i have a feeling that its affecting her more then i know....shes realy melow and quite at school last week (for two weeks in a row) she does have a bf (just to let you know i just liek her as a friend)...but when i see them together at lunch they dont even talk they just sit there and dont do a thing..and i feel reluctent to aprouch her even though i know shes looking and probably in her mind begging me to come......damn it im so confused..i dont want to lose another friend especaily one that actualy cared about me so much
SHE IS JUST A FRIEND NOTHING MORE...I DO NIOT WANT TO f**k HER! .the thing is why hasnt she even talked to me about it i dont understand...i mean i want to know how shes feeling and i can tell that she has been realy mellow latly..and i think im her problem, every since i kind of started doing this she looks depressed and shiy*...but i dont want to talk to her and seem like im analzing this constentntly, this is one of the most confused ive been in my entire life |
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i just kind of said f**k it but now i guess we are friends again but not half as much as it used to be
a key to anyone with brains...never ignore someone who cares about you alot...itll ruin your whole f**king relationship and set you the f**k back she doesnt have a boyfriend anymore as of today...i acted like this whole shit never happended and we talk a little now...but its not half as much as it used to be, it breaks me to know that it will probably never be the same because of my dumbass mistake....but idc, i kind of moved on a little bit and i fooled around with another girl today and met liek 4 more...and its mainly to get over her as a friend i guess....but idk i guess ill see how this week works out, i think im done with her for good though, and honestly i think there breakup was somewhat fueled over me among other things..idk if this is a dick move, bu i think im going to avoid her even more for her sake, i dont think i mentioned this before but i was avoiding her in the first place for her sake and i think im going to keep doing just that, i care about her alot, even if it means im not part of her life anymore :/ |
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i just kind of said f**k it but now i guess we are friends again but not half as much as it used to be a key to anyone with brains...never ignore someone who cares about you alot...itll ruin your whole f**king relationship and set you the f**k back she doesnt have a boyfriend anymore as of today...i acted like this whole shit never happended and we talk a little now...but its not half as much as it used to be, it breaks me to know that it will probably never be the same because of my dumbass mistake....but idc, i kind of moved on a little bit and i fooled around with another girl today and met liek 4 more...and its mainly to get over her as a friend i guess....but idk i guess ill see how this week works out, i think im done with her for good though, and honestly i think there breakup was somewhat fueled over me among other things..idk if this is a dick move, bu i think im going to avoid her even more for her sake, i dont think i mentioned this before but i was avoiding her in the first place for her sake and i think im going to keep doing just that, i care about her alot, even if it means im not part of her life anymore :/ how did you get past teh filter? edit - oh sweet nvm =] |
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