you're not fat..., "yes i am" |
 Sep 16 2006, 04:43 PM
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i don't think there's a topic on this...
i've always felt that your expectations for yourself are always going to be more then for friends. in this case, weight. some of my friends say they're fat, and i dont think they are. but when i look at myself (and i know i'm skinnier then them) i think I'M fat. it makes me feel hypocritical, because it's like *i* have to be really skinny to be pretty, while my friends don't. maybe it's just perception? discuss maybe? 
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
Oct 9 2006, 05:14 PM
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There are many ways you can be honest with an overweight friend without being mean. If they call themselves fat, tell them that they should do something about it if they feel that way. This way, you aren't openly saying, "Yep... you're fat!"
I feel this way most of the time about myself, and only this past year have I taken the inniciative and done something about it. I used to be INCREDIBLY self-concious, but I've come such a long way! I've lost some weight and am getting a personal trainer this week to give me some motivation! There is always something you aren't going to like about your body. I don't believe anyone is fully, 100% comfortable in their own skin... but you learn to accept your flaws. Flaunt it while you have it, girl! :D |
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angel_revelation you're not fat... Sep 16 2006, 04:43 PM
ANGEEZY. I think the same thing sometimes.. :\ Sep 16 2006, 04:52 PM salcha4u Girls are insecure. Sep 16 2006, 05:01 PM
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Sometimes they don... Sep 16 2006, 07:32 PM minixchopstix Either they're insecure or trying to get atten... Sep 16 2006, 07:33 PM WHIMSICAL 0NE I think it's just something that we do and don... Sep 16 2006, 09:14 PM x1227x well i have high self esteem so i never really cal... Sep 16 2006, 11:37 PM Spiritual Winged Aura I had a normal-ish/chubby-ish friend who called hi... Sep 17 2006, 12:53 AM Funkadelic Kiss It's funny when people sugarcoat. "Oh, yo... Sep 17 2006, 01:11 AM rawr SOCK ^ That's not right. It's misleading people... Sep 17 2006, 01:49 AM Spiritual Winged Aura But, people dont have the courage to say, " y... Sep 17 2006, 02:32 AM rawr SOCK I don't hurt others..
I just say "Oh, qui... Sep 17 2006, 02:41 AM Spiritual Winged Aura You cant called an overweight person, "fine... Sep 17 2006, 02:53 AM rawr SOCK But it's less dishonest than calling a 180 LB ... Sep 17 2006, 02:56 AM Spiritual Winged Aura Sort of ;[
Either way, it's dishonest. I perf... Sep 17 2006, 03:01 AM starlette I'm know I'm fat. All my friends lie and ... Sep 17 2006, 03:07 AM teeners__15 that actually doesn't happen to me often, nor ... Sep 17 2006, 05:59 AM [X]poised I'm obese. >< Sep 17 2006, 08:01 AM Angelina Taylor The main reason people say "OMG OMGOMGOMG I... Sep 17 2006, 10:23 AM Shortiiex everyone has there own definition of fat
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Me: Yeah, I know. Go on a die... Sep 17 2006, 06:23 PM happykmd So many people make a big deal over their weight, ... Sep 17 2006, 08:33 PM vn cuti3 i think they're all just saying it cause every... Sep 17 2006, 08:50 PM Crestfallen Shadow I completely hate when these little size 2 girls c... Sep 17 2006, 08:59 PM one_and_only i think when people say they are fat, they mean th... Sep 17 2006, 09:05 PM xklipse I used to complained that I'm fat, but I dont ... Sep 17 2006, 09:22 PM pink_is_love QUOTE(xklipse @ Sep 17 2006, 10:22 PM) I ... Sep 17 2006, 09:27 PM Spiritual Winged Aura Asian are good at judging people. Calling someone ... Sep 17 2006, 11:32 PM electric shock Out of all the girls I know, I'm the only one ... Sep 17 2006, 11:36 PM boo! grr... those type of girls that think their fat but indee... Sep 18 2006, 03:32 AM KissMe2408 I think you are always harder on yourself then you... Sep 22 2006, 01:35 PM Hashbrown [font=Comic Sans Ms]
you're exactly right.
i h... Sep 22 2006, 01:45 PM Hashbrown also, i know why im overweight.
[notice im not usi... Sep 22 2006, 02:07 PM [X]poised ^ I heart you...
It's so great to see somebod... Sep 22 2006, 03:30 PM lightsabersavvy i know im overweight, but not really. i think i we... Sep 22 2006, 08:26 PM blurrr ach i have the same prob...im 5'2" and wi... Sep 24 2006, 03:40 PM Kagome i guess it depends on who you`re comparing to ... Sep 25 2006, 09:56 PM My Cinderella. I agree with Suzzette. It is those darn magazines.... Sep 25 2006, 10:13 PM Libertie It's not that I think I'm fat (oh god no),... Sep 26 2006, 02:18 PM !LA LA La LIE~ well i say im fat and people say im skinny and yet... Sep 26 2006, 07:53 PM aubbob. here in hawai'i there are many overweight girl... Sep 27 2006, 03:36 AM .Hakalu i have a friend just like that. im a little chubby... Sep 29 2006, 07:27 PM cutey2kc i feel ya.
i know im sort of skinny.. but, it alw... Oct 5 2006, 06:14 PM boo! grr... i would like to lose a couple of pounds. i'mno... Oct 7 2006, 07:32 AM elbaliava I think it's alright to say that you want to l... Oct 7 2006, 10:25 PM &/degradanca. i've heard a ton of people who are of average ... Oct 8 2006, 02:14 AM You deny me! I'm 5'11 and about 180 lbs. I know I... Oct 8 2006, 07:13 AM **moonstruck** ^^ Hekk yes! Food is a problem for me too. I... Oct 8 2006, 06:37 PM ashopely eek, i hate when people put pics of them, wherever... Oct 9 2006, 03:00 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo I do this tp piss off my boyfriend sometimes.. I ... Oct 9 2006, 05:18 PM |
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