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 Oct 9 2006, 01:34 AM
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is it a right thing if your bf constantly reminds you on how he'd dump you if you don't do well in school. or that he keeps pushing you and lecturing you to get As and Bs. he's the kind of guy that overachieves...
my bf is driving me crazy right now and i don't know what to do. he says it's some kind of motivation but to me its more like a pressure and i don't work well with pressure. i've tried telling him to loosen up abit and he says he will but he doesn't. |
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Oct 9 2006, 06:37 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
i don't know... i don't really think your guy is being a good boyfriend. aren't boyfriends supposed to support you and be there for you when you're down? if he's bugged about your grades because he's a perfectionist/overachiever, he could offer to help you study but i don't think he should keep mentioning he could dump you any time your grades slipped. plus, he's your boyfriend, not your parents. the talk on the grades is not his to make.
you should talk to him. tell him you care about him but you don't like it when he pressures you about your academics. then again, if you're failing/doing pretty badly in school, i can understand why he might be worried for you. but in any case, i really don't think he should threaten to dump you over grades. |
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_sarcastic_ stressed. Oct 9 2006, 01:34 AM
**Lucy* Oh my heck! Why he does this to u? Just tell h... Oct 9 2006, 04:34 AM
magicfann QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Oct 9 2006, 5:34 AM) Oh m... Oct 9 2006, 10:47 AM ashopely QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Oct 9 2006, 7:3... Oct 11 2006, 05:00 PM **Lucy* ^ Umm what's wrong w/ "Oh my heck"? Oct 9 2006, 10:54 AM mipadi QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Oct 9 2006, 11:54 AM) ^ U... Oct 9 2006, 01:10 PM **Lucy* QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 9 2006, 7:10 PM) Well,... Oct 10 2006, 04:10 AM xostolenkissezox my boyfriend does the same thing to me and i just ... Oct 9 2006, 07:32 PM hardxcoreL0VER Well if he overachieves and he's pushing YOU, ... Oct 9 2006, 07:57 PM Uronacid QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 9 2006, 2:34 AM) ... Oct 10 2006, 10:11 PM rAwritsgWeg *Im not siding with anyone*
Hmm maybe he's tel... Oct 10 2006, 10:42 PM SimplicityGirl I think it's kind of mean of him to tell you h... Oct 10 2006, 10:57 PM suddenly she QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 9 2006, 1:34 AM) ... Oct 10 2006, 11:14 PM rAwritsgWeg Yea, If he is threatening to dump you for grades H... Oct 11 2006, 12:48 AM Uronacid I thought about this for a while now... You feel a... Oct 12 2006, 09:38 AM iROCKYOURSOCKS QUOTE(Uronacid @ Oct 12 2006, 9:38 AM) I ... Oct 12 2006, 06:47 PM cvchango I don't believe he's trying to make you as... Oct 12 2006, 03:11 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo Wtf how gay.. It is your life live it the way you ... Oct 12 2006, 03:57 PM Anna Banana =} QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 9 2006, 2:34 AM) ... Oct 12 2006, 04:18 PM Infinite. ^To be honest, I don't think saying that he do... Oct 12 2006, 04:45 PM _sarcastic_ wow those are some good advice...
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