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[misfit]

Ok I just found out my boyfriends friend,who is a girl,has been saying shit behind my ack,not to him though.She said(not to me, i was told this and i have proof that she actually did say it)..anyway she said that my bf's mum doesn't like me,that he's mum wishes he wasnt with someone who has a million problems & that she was dissapointed when she met me & wishes that my bf and the other girl were together instead. She also said that I have anxiety attacks for attention and all this other shit. I havent been in a good way lately, so naturally, I didnt take it all to well. I rang my boyfriend crying. He says he doesn't know what she is on about but none of what she said is true. And I said so you're going to keep been friends with someone who upset your girlfriend and betrayed her?And he goes im not going to lose a good friend over it. I wasn't expecting him to, but I thought he'd atleast stand up for me and tell her off? But instead it's like he defended her and got mad at me and told me to ignore it and that the other girl was just being ridiculous. Then he text messages me saying "I have spoken 2 her before and she said sorry and that she didnt mean to course shit she was just talking to that girl about her problems and over exagerated things and she said about she didnt mean it and shes sorry now,im not going to lose a friend over it good night"


Sorry but I dont get it. He's other friend said im shit once,he then yelled at his friend and didnt talk to him for two weeks. Yet it's like what his so called friend has said,is nothing?Fair enough eh doesnt wanna lose a friend but what he's gonna let her get away with it?People have said she must just be jelous,but I dont see how, she's in love with this other guy,she's obsessed with him. And my boyfriend wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole. She's very unattractive btw. And she also sent me a message saying half of what I said to you isn't true just so you know...

I mean wtf did I do to her?And I had spoken to my bfs mum about it and she said,i've never said that and i dont know where she has pulled that from. I thought he's mum would be like WHAT?? I dunno maybe I just see things different,maybe my boyfriend doesnt want to put up with this shit, but im upset and she doesn't deserve to get away with it, coz sorry doesn't cut it after what she's made up. Next time she could just do it all again and she would be the reason my boyfriend and I are fighting, again.

His sister said that he likes to avoid conflict but I dunno, I know he's really tired lately,but it's like he defended her and said she's always there for him and shit and got mad at me...

I can't win.Opinions?

[misfit]

Ok ^ think what you want' I didn't come here to be judged,I have depression, if that explains more..

Thanks to the people who replied though, I just didn't expect to come here,post a problem and have my words twisted around and things added onto the story.

And sorry if I didn't explain it that well, I explained the story in the best way I could and people just replied saying what they think of me and assuming crap. Instead of asking me. Yeah I asked for opinions, but I didn't ask for what you think of me did I. And I didn't exactly want people to assume and judge me did I...Thanks for the people who were understanding though and gave me their opinion.


Anyway, i've spoken to her, I asked her since when did I say something behind your back, she thought that I thought she'dm ake a move on my boyfriend and I said no that's not true, whoever said that is wrong. And she said well that's why she got mad and said all this shit about me that wasn't true. Apparently she didn't want to tell my boyfriend and I about something because, she thought it would effect the relationship. I don't know what but apparently it as to do with me saying shit behind her back which I never did ,anyway i'll get an answer from her.

Thanks.