saving a relationship |
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Sep 30 2006, 12:56 PM
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we've been together for a little more than five months. he's my best friend, i've known him for three years now. my absolute best friend. but lately .. it feels as if things aren't the same. within the past two weeks actually. his view on everything has changed .. he told a mutual friend that he still wants to be with me but the feelings are just different. he still says he loves me and all but .. he's just confused. what's happening? is there anything i should be doing? he got out of the hospital a week or two ago .. do you think that could have done anything? i just need some wisdom .. some advice .. something. how do you spice up a relationship? maybe i should try that. oh geez .. =[
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Oct 4 2006, 07:26 PM
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okey so i'm definitely going to take you people's advice. i asked him out on a date for this saturday and he's so excited about it ahaha. but uhh yeah, my problem isss i don't know exactly what to plan. i'm gonna go take him to see that new texas chain saw massacre thing, and maybe i'll take him bowling (he always wants to go but it's too expensive haha) & take him out to dinner? we don't spend ANY time alone anymore, i only see him in school now. so yeah i`enno. i wanna go bungee jumping with him .. but i don't know where to go for that =[ things are going up & down for us right now, i'm hoping this saturday will calm down the waves. haha.. thank you everyone for replying.
anyone else have any advice or something? ha .. he doesn't say "i love you" as much anymore. i noticed that .. we did just get into an arguement and we didn't talk for a day ha but still =[ |
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silent epidemic saving a relationship Sep 30 2006, 12:56 PM
hardxcoreL0VER Maybe he thought about it alot at the hospital. Yo... Sep 30 2006, 01:20 PM
silent epidemic true .. i've thought about that. but at the s... Sep 30 2006, 01:28 PM
hardxcoreL0VER You could plan a party for him. And invite all his... Sep 30 2006, 01:34 PM
silent epidemic well i would .. he doesn't have many friends t... Sep 30 2006, 01:38 PM
pinayprincess you dont need a party, all you need is to talk and... Sep 30 2006, 04:20 PM
silent epidemic he says he's confused. like .. he knows he lo... Sep 30 2006, 06:34 PM
Uronacid You guys just sound like you need to sit down and ... Sep 30 2006, 09:02 PM
silent epidemic no he's told me he definitely does not want to... Sep 30 2006, 09:21 PM
.Hakalu QUOTE(silent epidemic @ Sep 30 2006, 9:21... Sep 30 2006, 11:01 PM
Uronacid Man, maybe he jsut needs you to tell him he's ... Sep 30 2006, 09:24 PM
My Cinderella. I definately think it's best to just continue ... Sep 30 2006, 11:25 PM
Angelina Taylor I think you need a break. No offense, but I see no... Sep 30 2006, 11:50 PM
silent epidemic well, he IS my best friend, as he's not very c... Oct 1 2006, 11:32 AM
**Lucy* Oh, dear I'm so sorry I can't give u good ... Oct 3 2006, 09:49 AM
Uronacid Do you guys spend time together doing friend thing... Oct 3 2006, 10:25 AM
Kirsti do new things.
spark a new interest. Oct 3 2006, 05:37 PM![]() ![]() |