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[misfit]

Ok I just found out my boyfriends friend,who is a girl,has been saying shit behind my ack,not to him though.She said(not to me, i was told this and i have proof that she actually did say it)..anyway she said that my bf's mum doesn't like me,that he's mum wishes he wasnt with someone who has a million problems & that she was dissapointed when she met me & wishes that my bf and the other girl were together instead. She also said that I have anxiety attacks for attention and all this other shit. I havent been in a good way lately, so naturally, I didnt take it all to well. I rang my boyfriend crying. He says he doesn't know what she is on about but none of what she said is true. And I said so you're going to keep been friends with someone who upset your girlfriend and betrayed her?And he goes im not going to lose a good friend over it. I wasn't expecting him to, but I thought he'd atleast stand up for me and tell her off? But instead it's like he defended her and got mad at me and told me to ignore it and that the other girl was just being ridiculous. Then he text messages me saying "I have spoken 2 her before and she said sorry and that she didnt mean to course shit she was just talking to that girl about her problems and over exagerated things and she said about she didnt mean it and shes sorry now,im not going to lose a friend over it good night"


Sorry but I dont get it. He's other friend said im shit once,he then yelled at his friend and didnt talk to him for two weeks. Yet it's like what his so called friend has said,is nothing?Fair enough eh doesnt wanna lose a friend but what he's gonna let her get away with it?People have said she must just be jelous,but I dont see how, she's in love with this other guy,she's obsessed with him. And my boyfriend wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole. She's very unattractive btw. And she also sent me a message saying half of what I said to you isn't true just so you know...

I mean wtf did I do to her?And I had spoken to my bfs mum about it and she said,i've never said that and i dont know where she has pulled that from. I thought he's mum would be like WHAT?? I dunno maybe I just see things different,maybe my boyfriend doesnt want to put up with this shit, but im upset and she doesn't deserve to get away with it, coz sorry doesn't cut it after what she's made up. Next time she could just do it all again and she would be the reason my boyfriend and I are fighting, again.

His sister said that he likes to avoid conflict but I dunno, I know he's really tired lately,but it's like he defended her and said she's always there for him and shit and got mad at me...

I can't win.Opinions?

[misfit]

^Ok assume all you like, but you're wrong, maybe ask me before you judge. What you read, you seem to assume the negative, when it could mean ANYTHING. It's like you don't want to hear my sideo f the story, like it's what you say, goes and I have no say in what is true at all.




Look I don't expect anything. Yes I asked for opinions, but I didn't know people were going to read things and assume. Maybe ask before you judge. I didn't expect for my boyfriend to do anything, I just hoped. He is my boyfriend and we love eachother, I was hoping for some support.Not expecting it. maybe I thought he'd be angry,but didn't mean i'd expect him to be, because I can't assume what his reaction will be.


I did speak to her. Sorry that I forgot to mention that, I sent her a text message. And she said now there's no point in arguing because it's not going to resolve anything and then she sent me another message saying half of what I said wasn't true. Either way, that does not make it alright. My boyfriend said that she might of said certain things that lead up to something,but she over exaggerated about. Yeah I see that, I understand that but it still doesn't make it alright. Yeah she said sorry, but if she was really sorry, she would of said it to me and she didn't.

My boyfriend had said on the phone to me lastnight,what am I meant to say, what am I meant to do,i spoke to her straight after i spoke to you,i defended her because i suppose i thought it would help things & stop the arguing & then he sent me a message late lastnight saying im sorry if I yelled at you, im just sick of arguing.


I'm not going to confront her again at all. I already did and later on I asked her why and everything and I got no reply. Why should I?She's the one who said it all, not me. If anything she should. If anyone was being immature it's her. She just tries to come across as innocent when she's just a stupid fake bitch.

I don't need to waste my breathe on someone like that. I don't want to be friends with her. I don't like fake people.

And yes I asked for advice and opinions but it'd be better if you ask me before you assume the worst of me.

[***Lucy**]

^Ok assume all you like, but you're wrong, maybe ask me before you judge. What you read, you seem to assume the negative, when it could mean ANYTHING. It's like you don't want to hear my sideo f the story, like it's what you say, goes and I have no say in what is true at all.
Look I don't expect anything. Yes I asked for opinions, but I didn't know people were going to read things and assume. Maybe ask before you judge.

And yes I asked for advice and opinions but it'd be better if you ask me before you assume the worst of me.

Look sweetie, when u post ur problem people assume that u have written the whole story so they won't have to ask u things.

We didn't judge u but it's obvious that everyone will read and will form his/her opinion on the matter. We do hear your side of the story but each story has two sides.
I don't think Josh or anybody else assumed the worst of u. Probably u didn't like his opinion but that's life.

When u ask for our opinion u should be prepared that u'll probably be told things u won't like. But if u posted only to receive a bunch of answers saying:"oh, yeah ur so right and oh she's such a bitch and all" then u'll have to learn that not everyone agrees w/ u.