Second Chances...., Second Opinons... Options

[princess*missy]

hey everyone... .... my ex that cheated on me wants to go back out with me. My friend let me read the note that him and her were passin and he sounds really sad. I really want a second opinion before I make my final decision.....

Here's what the note between Nikki (my friend) and Adam (my ex) said..

Adam: I still care alot about Missy but I don't think I should tell her.
Nikki: Omg. man tell her she would like to know. I'm not sayin she'd want you back cause you cheated but she'd prob want to know about it.
Adam: The thing is I'm the one that broke up with her and I've regreted it ever since!!
Nikki: Why did you break up her then?
Adam: I wasn't sure how I felt about her.
Nikki: I still say tell her.
Adam: But now I know I really do love her but I feel stupid telling her that NOW!!!

That was the basics of they're conversation. I still love him alot. Do you guys think I should take him back?

[*Uronacid*]

I wouldn't give him a second chance if you can't trust him. Trust is very important in a relationship. Without trust relationships do not work... well, they work, but they're very unhealthy and bad.

If you decide not to go out with him (which I deffinitly recommend). I suggest you telling him why you made that choice. This way he thinks twice before her cheats on one of his future partners. If you feel like this maybe say, "Look, I really like you, but trust is an important factor in the well being of a relationship. I don't trust you after what you did. No matter how sorry you are, it won't work. I'm sorry; I forgive you for what hapened, but I can't go back out with you."

Quote from the movie Identity, "Whores don't get a second chance!"

lol, forgivness isn't a bad thing either. So if you think you can handle another relationship, and forget about what happened then you may be able to have another realtionship with him.