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 Sep 30 2006, 12:56 PM
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we've been together for a little more than five months. he's my best friend, i've known him for three years now. my absolute best friend. but lately .. it feels as if things aren't the same. within the past two weeks actually. his view on everything has changed .. he told a mutual friend that he still wants to be with me but the feelings are just different. he still says he loves me and all but .. he's just confused. what's happening? is there anything i should be doing? he got out of the hospital a week or two ago .. do you think that could have done anything? i just need some wisdom .. some advice .. something. how do you spice up a relationship? maybe i should try that. oh geez .. =[
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Oct 1 2006, 11:32 AM
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well, he IS my best friend, as he's not very confident when it comes to his looks. so i sort of understand that part. he keeps saying "if we get married.." and he likes to talk about our future. the reason i'm spending less time with him is because he says he sees me too much, so how is continuing to see him more going to work? i don't know .. he just confuses me. cause then he'll say why don't you wanna spend time with me like that. w're just so used to each other, so comfortable since weve been best friends for 3 years that yearh, i wanna spice things up ahaha. i don't know, i told him we might just need to take a break .. and he absolutely does not want that. he knows he still wants to be with me .. he said he just set me aside because he's comfortable knowing i'll be there for him and he's got a LOT of bad things happening lately so he needs to worry about those things. maybe because of that he doesn't feel like he loves me because he's more focused on the bad things going on right now? he says he sees me too much, i give him time. then complains when i go out with a friend saying i don't wanna spend time with him like that...
uhh, geez. i talk too much. but maaan .. |
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silent epidemic saving a relationship Sep 30 2006, 12:56 PM
hardxcoreL0VER Maybe he thought about it alot at the hospital. Yo... Sep 30 2006, 01:20 PM silent epidemic true .. i've thought about that. but at the s... Sep 30 2006, 01:28 PM hardxcoreL0VER You could plan a party for him. And invite all his... Sep 30 2006, 01:34 PM silent epidemic well i would .. he doesn't have many friends t... Sep 30 2006, 01:38 PM pinayprincess you dont need a party, all you need is to talk and... Sep 30 2006, 04:20 PM silent epidemic he says he's confused. like .. he knows he lo... Sep 30 2006, 06:34 PM Uronacid You guys just sound like you need to sit down and ... Sep 30 2006, 09:02 PM silent epidemic no he's told me he definitely does not want to... Sep 30 2006, 09:21 PM
.Hakalu QUOTE(silent epidemic @ Sep 30 2006, 9:21... Sep 30 2006, 11:01 PM Uronacid Man, maybe he jsut needs you to tell him he's ... Sep 30 2006, 09:24 PM My Cinderella. I definately think it's best to just continue ... Sep 30 2006, 11:25 PM Angelina Taylor I think you need a break. No offense, but I see no... Sep 30 2006, 11:50 PM **Lucy* Oh, dear I'm so sorry I can't give u good ... Oct 3 2006, 09:49 AM Uronacid Do you guys spend time together doing friend thing... Oct 3 2006, 10:25 AM Kirsti do new things.
spark a new interest. Oct 3 2006, 05:37 PM silent epidemic okey so i'm definitely going to take you peopl... Oct 4 2006, 07:26 PM |
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