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silent epidemic
post Sep 30 2006, 12:56 PM
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we've been together for a little more than five months. he's my best friend, i've known him for three years now. my absolute best friend. but lately .. it feels as if things aren't the same. within the past two weeks actually. his view on everything has changed .. he told a mutual friend that he still wants to be with me but the feelings are just different. he still says he loves me and all but .. he's just confused. what's happening? is there anything i should be doing? he got out of the hospital a week or two ago .. do you think that could have done anything? i just need some wisdom .. some advice .. something. how do you spice up a relationship? maybe i should try that. oh geez .. =[
 
 
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AngelinaTaylor
post Sep 30 2006, 11:50 PM
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I think you need a break. No offense, but I see no potential future in your relationship as long as he keeps "jumping off the walls" when a "pretty" girl calls him sexy; plus the fact that he even tells you these things is strange. And what's with the whole "I know I love you, I just don't feel it" bit?

It's obvious that he's not very interested in you. I think he cares about you more like a friend. He needs to think about what he wants, and the best way to do that is to give each other a little space. A break works. Most of the time anyway.
 

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silent epidemic   saving a relationship   Sep 30 2006, 12:56 PM
hardxcoreL0VER   Maybe he thought about it alot at the hospital. Yo...   Sep 30 2006, 01:20 PM
silent epidemic   true .. i've thought about that. but at the s...   Sep 30 2006, 01:28 PM
hardxcoreL0VER   You could plan a party for him. And invite all his...   Sep 30 2006, 01:34 PM
silent epidemic   well i would .. he doesn't have many friends t...   Sep 30 2006, 01:38 PM
pinayprincess   you dont need a party, all you need is to talk and...   Sep 30 2006, 04:20 PM
silent epidemic   he says he's confused. like .. he knows he lo...   Sep 30 2006, 06:34 PM
Uronacid   You guys just sound like you need to sit down and ...   Sep 30 2006, 09:02 PM
silent epidemic   no he's told me he definitely does not want to...   Sep 30 2006, 09:21 PM
.Hakalu   QUOTE(silent epidemic @ Sep 30 2006, 9:21...   Sep 30 2006, 11:01 PM
Uronacid   Man, maybe he jsut needs you to tell him he's ...   Sep 30 2006, 09:24 PM
My Cinderella.   I definately think it's best to just continue ...   Sep 30 2006, 11:25 PM
Angelina Taylor   I think you need a break. No offense, but I see no...   Sep 30 2006, 11:50 PM
silent epidemic   well, he IS my best friend, as he's not very c...   Oct 1 2006, 11:32 AM
**Lucy*   Oh, dear I'm so sorry I can't give u good ...   Oct 3 2006, 09:49 AM
Uronacid   Do you guys spend time together doing friend thing...   Oct 3 2006, 10:25 AM
Kirsti   do new things. spark a new interest.   Oct 3 2006, 05:37 PM
silent epidemic   okey so i'm definitely going to take you peopl...   Oct 4 2006, 07:26 PM


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