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 Sep 30 2006, 12:56 PM
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we've been together for a little more than five months. he's my best friend, i've known him for three years now. my absolute best friend. but lately .. it feels as if things aren't the same. within the past two weeks actually. his view on everything has changed .. he told a mutual friend that he still wants to be with me but the feelings are just different. he still says he loves me and all but .. he's just confused. what's happening? is there anything i should be doing? he got out of the hospital a week or two ago .. do you think that could have done anything? i just need some wisdom .. some advice .. something. how do you spice up a relationship? maybe i should try that. oh geez .. =[
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Sep 30 2006, 09:21 PM
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no he's told me he definitely does not want to break up. he says maybe the hospital changed his thinking or something. he says he knows he still loves me .. and he still says it a lot. he's not the kind of guy who falls in love all the time. when he falls in love, it's the real deal. i've been giving him his space. i've been hanging out with my friends more and seeing him less, because he did say he might feel that way cause he just sees too much of me now in school? but then every now & then he says something about me going out & gets upset saying things like how come you never wanna spend that kind of time with me like that.
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Sep 30 2006, 11:01 PM
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QUOTE(silent epidemic @ Sep 30 2006, 9:21 PM)  no he's told me he definitely does not want to break up. he says maybe the hospital changed his thinking or something. he says he knows he still loves me .. and he still says it a lot. he's not the kind of guy who falls in love all the time. when he falls in love, it's the real deal. i've been giving him his space. i've been hanging out with my friends more and seeing him less, because he did say he might feel that way cause he just sees too much of me now in school? but then every now & then he says something about me going out & gets upset saying things like how come you never wanna spend that kind of time with me like that. just spend more time with him. if you're looking to "spice up your relationship" then why are you spending LESS time with him? |
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silent epidemic saving a relationship Sep 30 2006, 12:56 PM
hardxcoreL0VER Maybe he thought about it alot at the hospital. Yo... Sep 30 2006, 01:20 PM silent epidemic true .. i've thought about that. but at the s... Sep 30 2006, 01:28 PM hardxcoreL0VER You could plan a party for him. And invite all his... Sep 30 2006, 01:34 PM silent epidemic well i would .. he doesn't have many friends t... Sep 30 2006, 01:38 PM pinayprincess you dont need a party, all you need is to talk and... Sep 30 2006, 04:20 PM silent epidemic he says he's confused. like .. he knows he lo... Sep 30 2006, 06:34 PM Uronacid You guys just sound like you need to sit down and ... Sep 30 2006, 09:02 PM
Uronacid Man, maybe he jsut needs you to tell him he's ... Sep 30 2006, 09:24 PM My Cinderella. I definately think it's best to just continue ... Sep 30 2006, 11:25 PM Angelina Taylor I think you need a break. No offense, but I see no... Sep 30 2006, 11:50 PM silent epidemic well, he IS my best friend, as he's not very c... Oct 1 2006, 11:32 AM **Lucy* Oh, dear I'm so sorry I can't give u good ... Oct 3 2006, 09:49 AM Uronacid Do you guys spend time together doing friend thing... Oct 3 2006, 10:25 AM Kirsti do new things.
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silent epidemic okey so i'm definitely going to take you peopl... Oct 4 2006, 07:26 PM |
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