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is the first the hardest?
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post Aug 7 2006, 05:37 PM
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is a first boyfriend the hardest to get over??? cuz i was with this guy and i guess were done but i anbsolutely cant get over him ...its only been a day but im just dieing...its not only mentally and emotionally killing me but its actually causing me stomach pain and headaches and it hasnt left my mind for one second!! help!?!?
 
 
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blacknailpolish
post Aug 7 2006, 06:51 PM
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Aww I know it hurts believe me. You just have to let yourself hurt for awhile, even if its hard. Then you just have to remind yourself that there will be other guys, and there really will be. It takes awhile, especially with first loves. If the physical pain doesnt go away after awhile, you should probably talk to someone you trust about that. Otherwise, hang in there!
 
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post Sep 28 2006, 12:09 PM
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QUOTE(candy_coated_kisses @ Aug 7 2006, 6:51 PM) *
Aww I know it hurts believe me. You just have to let yourself hurt for awhile, even if its hard. Then you just have to remind yourself that there will be other guys, and there really will be. It takes awhile, especially with first loves. If the physical pain doesnt go away after awhile, you should probably talk to someone you trust about that. Otherwise, hang in there!


she's right.
i've only been with one guy, my first and first love.
i know how you feel.
we were together for like four months and come on grad. night for me we broke up.
it was the saddest thing in the world, and i still miss him terribly.
especially we you see people all lovey-dovey, it hurts, the memories come back at you.

but i look at those memories at figuring out what went wrong and how it could have changed, don't worry we're all here for one another.
and trust me - if the guy can't find one thing beautiful for you but looks, but as a person he's not ment to be.
 

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blurrr   is the first the hardest?   Aug 7 2006, 05:37 PM
STFULiNDA   Oh gosh i know how you feel.. but wasnt my first b...   Aug 7 2006, 05:55 PM
magicfann   QUOTE(blurrr @ Aug 7 2006, 6:37 PM) is a ...   Aug 7 2006, 06:42 PM
Just2Fresh   QUOTE(magicfann @ Aug 7 2006, 4:42 PM) ha...   Aug 7 2006, 07:02 PM
magicfann   QUOTE(Just2Fresh @ Aug 7 2006, 8:02 PM) T...   Aug 7 2006, 09:07 PM
L!ckitySplit   QUOTE(magicfann @ Aug 7 2006, 9:07 PM) lo...   Aug 13 2006, 07:41 PM
candy_coated_kisses   Aww I know it hurts believe me. You just have to ...   Aug 7 2006, 06:51 PM
mystikmiko   QUOTE(candy_coated_kisses @ Aug 7 2006, 6...   Sep 28 2006, 12:09 PM
liquid.   ^ Actually I think hes probably better off than yo...   Aug 7 2006, 07:07 PM
Angelina Taylor   No. The first person who you love, however, will b...   Aug 7 2006, 07:24 PM
Trinie   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 7 2006, 4:24 ...   Sep 27 2006, 11:16 AM
prettixpinay   i think so. i was going out with this guy for 4 mo...   Aug 7 2006, 07:54 PM
The E-Man   I think it is because you don't have a normal ...   Aug 7 2006, 08:55 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   QUOTE(The E-Man @ Aug 7 2006, 9:55 P...   Aug 7 2006, 09:21 PM
Smoogrish   Jeff, will you stop bashing people?   Aug 7 2006, 09:15 PM
The E-Man   Every break up takes time and patience like Meliss...   Aug 7 2006, 09:41 PM
blurrr   actually this guy wasnt my first boyfriend..i neve...   Aug 7 2006, 09:42 PM
The E-Man   Well in that case. Hang out with your other friend...   Aug 7 2006, 09:45 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   Not the first boyfriend, the first love.   Aug 8 2006, 12:08 AM
medicalxinjektion   QUOTEb' date='Aug 8 2006, 1:08 AM' pos...   Aug 8 2006, 08:11 PM
just_rissa   Mostly depends on what kind of a person you are. L...   Aug 8 2006, 01:31 AM
BrokenDream   My first boyfriend/love was extremely hard to get ...   Aug 8 2006, 02:08 AM
da_SALSA   yeah it is hard--it takes time. and that's the...   Aug 8 2006, 08:07 PM
Gypsy Eyes   Yeah, it really is. I'm still not over mine an...   Aug 8 2006, 08:09 PM
nycaf12   its hard because its your first one.. your first l...   Aug 9 2006, 12:37 AM
one43s   1 day? wow, he got you whooped! i guess it al...   Aug 9 2006, 12:46 AM
TaintedDesires   Probably not the first boyfriend but your first lo...   Aug 9 2006, 03:46 PM
Uronacid   Hi, I had this same problem with my first girl-fri...   Aug 9 2006, 06:32 PM
blurrr   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 9 2006, 7:32 PM) Kee...   Aug 9 2006, 11:59 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(blurrr @ Aug 10 2006, 12:59 AM) wel...   Aug 11 2006, 10:41 AM
mrs noll   your first is always hard to get over because that...   Aug 9 2006, 09:18 PM
femme_fatale4160   I don't know that the first is always the hard...   Aug 9 2006, 09:24 PM
ItsAMansWorld   depends on how good of a boyfriend he was... if he...   Aug 10 2006, 10:16 AM
JULiANAMON.   my first bf? i didnt have any trouble at all to ge...   Aug 11 2006, 02:04 PM
candy_coated_kisses   ^ Yeah me neither, seeing as I broke up with him   Aug 11 2006, 10:14 PM
kabonn   first love, yes...first boyfriend, possible but if...   Aug 13 2006, 01:13 AM
ciliegia   Yes, and I say this from experience. Of course it...   Aug 13 2006, 06:41 AM
xnastyninjagrlx   yah I hate those first loves!! I know its ...   Aug 14 2006, 02:41 PM
Selv   Yes for me it was my first TRUE LOVING girlfriend ...   Aug 14 2006, 04:58 PM
The E-Man   Wait aren't you only 13? Not that it is a bad...   Aug 14 2006, 05:12 PM
Born in a burial gown   My current boyfriend is my first love and I can...   Sep 27 2006, 11:35 AM
No Fear   For me it is (girlfriend), I have too many regrets...   Sep 27 2006, 12:10 PM
KissMe2408   For me my first boyfriend wasn't the hardest t...   Sep 27 2006, 02:05 PM
My Cinderella.   Not neccessarily the first boyfriend you have, but...   Sep 27 2006, 06:21 PM
Infinite.   -shrugs- I don't really know, I think its more...   Sep 27 2006, 10:40 PM
xlitoxb   First loves are horrible. I'm trying so hard t...   Sep 30 2006, 08:30 PM
mushoo92   i didnt have any problems with the first one..i gu...   Oct 1 2006, 03:03 AM


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