Drunking, Drugs, whatnot, . Options

[orgasm]

Okay... first things first.

I've never done drugs, I've never smoked, I've never even been TEMPTED to try any of that shit. The only times I drink is when I'm with people I'm comfortable around, and even then, it's just a Pina Colada or a Strawberry Daquiery. Thus, I've never gotten drunk.

Ever since I turned thirteen, I've told myself I wouldn't ever cross that line and do something stupid like that. And I haven't.

But at the same time, so many of my friends have said the same thing and over the past 4-5 years, I've seen them change into people I don't even recognize.

I still want to be friends with them, but why can't they respect me when I say I DONT want to go to a certain party because I know there'll be beer, I'll know there'll be people I don't want to associate myself with, and I know they'll be doing things that they'll regret the next morning...

Nooo, they find it necessary to pressure me to the point where I just snap and tell them to get off my back. And then they get offended.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Drunking, haha.

You can't change their decisions. If they really mean that much to you, and you don't want to hang out with people that will stay sober and un-smoked up, then there's not much you can do, now is there. As long as they understand you don't, even if they keep pressing the issue and you keep saying no then there shouldn't be problems, unless they start teasing you and making you feel bad, then you need to set them straight and tell them you simply do not do those things and if they get offended tell them to get over themselves, they don't run you.