Always pick the hot friends..., ... |
 Sep 21 2006, 09:32 PM
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All my guy friends are always talking about and drooling over either my friend Katie or Sam or Jordyn. I've been told I'm average looking. I dunno I'm more of a friend to them but I don't know how to act flirty or anything. It's really starting to bother me. I have depression and all this just makes me feel worse. It makes me feel ugly. It's like, why even bother to do my hair/makeup in the morning if I'm ugly anyways? Nobodys ever drooled over me...
Sorry this turned into more of a rant but the question is; how do I act more flirty and stuff with my guy friends? Also, how do I keep my confidence up? |
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Sep 24 2006, 12:40 PM
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QUOTE(misskentucky @ Sep 21 2006, 10:32 PM)  how do I act more flirty and stuff with my guy friends? Also, how do I keep my confidence up? Honestly? You don't. I'll quote Alec Guinness (Obi Wan from Star Wars), "Don't act, react." Just be yourself because the moment you start pretending to be something you are not (a flirty girl, etc) is the moment you begin a long career in keeping up that role. Just don't do it. No one (including guys) is worth the effort. In high school I had two very beautiful friends. Both were much taller, more feminine and sure as hell dressed better. I often felt like I was just there. Occasionally though, there were people who saw beyond the asthetic qualities (not that my friends didn't have other qualities than being beautiful) and were either guys who I become romantically involved with, or guys I stayed friends with for a long time. It'll happen. Someone will see you as a 'hot girl' because of more than your appearance. It's just frustrating in the meantime. |
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misskentucky Always pick the hot friends... Sep 21 2006, 09:32 PM
Trinie just be yourself. don't be try tos someone you... Sep 21 2006, 09:57 PM Spiritual Winged Aura people who are naturally attractive always wins. Y... Sep 21 2006, 09:58 PM
Trinie QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 21 2006, 6... Sep 24 2006, 12:20 PM iROCKYOURSOCKS QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 21 2006, 9... Nov 6 2006, 09:32 PM
a painefull euphoria QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 21 2006, 8... Nov 22 2006, 06:57 AM minixchopstix Yeah, and who cares about looking hot. It's wh... Sep 21 2006, 10:11 PM _sarcastic_ they are drooling over your girl friends, but it d... Sep 22 2006, 01:40 AM Uronacid Alright, think of your friends as A-hole filters. ... Sep 22 2006, 08:41 AM .Hakalu being drooled over shouldn't be a main priorit... Sep 30 2006, 01:38 AM **Lucy* Oh,dear, don't worry! your guy friends don... Sep 30 2006, 05:23 AM strcrft I know exactly how you feel and im gonna try my be... Nov 6 2006, 10:23 AM hixfive beauty is in the eye of the beholder
maybe..make t... Nov 6 2006, 04:03 PM funk.this Drool = not cool. Especially when it's all ov... Nov 6 2006, 04:23 PM minioligo Actually, I'm pretty much in the same situatio... Nov 6 2006, 11:42 PM boo! grr... god confidence is like the main thing to have. i... Nov 7 2006, 01:36 AM |
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