Am I just being paranoid? Options

[misfit]

Ok well usually my oyfriend will say "love u" at the end of a text message,to my phone. And anyway lastnight when we were on the phone,he was like i've gotta go watch my tv show,which i thought fair enough coz one of his fav shows was on...Then he rang me just before he went to bed and said just wanted to let you know I love you and I was like oh that's sweet, I love you too..And then I said...is there anything wrong,because you never just ring to say that lol and he goes yeah I do and no there is nothing wrong. And then he was like anyway i've gotta go to sleep and this is costing heaps(coz he was ringing from his mobile) and I was like ok and we sdaid goodnight. Then at 7:30am the smorning he sent me a message saying "I hope I haven't woken you,I love you sweetheart,I don't really have anything else to say,love u."

I had woken up just before he sent that message, he's at work at that time of the smorning,o sometimes if he getst he chance he will send me a message,he sends me one every day without fail.But I dunno, I asked him in a message,if there was anything wrong and I even said do you feel guilty or something lol and he goes "No nothing is wrong, gees a guy can't win if i dont call u say, y dont u call, love u." Am I just being paranoid? One of my friends and my mum said to me I am just eing paranoid...But I can't help but think his feeling guilty or something... I dunno maybe he was just ringing me to tell me he loves me before he goes to bed and I supposeh e does text me saying "love you darling night" nearly every night..BAnd maybe he just was bored at work and wanted me to wake up to that message in the morning..

I don't know...what do you think???

Thanks sorry this is long!

[*Uronacid*]

Yes, you are being overly paranoid... I would just talk to him about it. It may make you feel better even though you will probably feel better. Whatever you do, it seems like it really upset you. You need to let it out somehow or else it may turn into a big problem. Talk to him about how you feel. Tell him you are insecure about the way he feels towards you. Help him understand you. If he doesn't understand you he will just get really annoyed and frustrated.