what's the best way to communicate?, phone? person to person? instant messenger? |
 Sep 11 2006, 05:09 PM
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 life is beautiful  Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,856  |
there's this guy who i've liked for awhile...but the only way we have good, meaningful conversations is by using the internet (emails, instant messenger, etc). we do talk in person, but it always seems awkward because we're both kind of shy. we have attempted to talk on the phone (every now and then), and the conversations start out fine until we run out of things to say. then we start saying stuff like "um"', "oh"', "that's nice", etc.
the problem is that we're both so busy with schoolwork and other activities that we hardly talk online or see each other as much. i don't want our relationship to drift away...should i call more often to keep in touch? even if it'll be awkward? haha this is pathetic 
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Sep 20 2006, 03:51 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
The reason you're only able to have meaningful conversations with him online is most likely because over the internet, you have time to think and you aren't put up on the spot. That's why most of the shyness dissappears and you always have something to talk about. There's never any "awkward silence" over AIM...
That's how it used to be with me and this guy I liked. But then, we started hanging out more and the more we hung out, the more we got to know each other, the more we knew how to act and relax around each other... and it's all good now. Except ... now he's interested in my friend, so we're just "great buddies" ... |
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purrfecto what's the best way to communicate? Sep 11 2006, 05:09 PM
krnxswat Instead of having meaningful conversations online,... Sep 11 2006, 05:19 PM
Synthetic.Love QUOTE(krnxswat @ Sep 11 2006, 6:19 PM) In... Sep 13 2006, 06:19 PM Angelina Taylor Best way to communicate is in person. The end. Sep 11 2006, 07:52 PM yrrnotelekktric QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Sep 11 2006, 4:52... Sep 14 2006, 09:43 PM mipadi Scroll. Or telegram. Sep 11 2006, 11:33 PM suddenly she i was rather fond of the pony express and messenge... Sep 18 2006, 09:03 PM hardxcoreL0VER talk on aim first & half way through the convo... Sep 12 2006, 12:30 AM L!ckitySplit aim- lame
phone- not that lame
in person-bingo
... Sep 13 2006, 06:33 PM Listelle In person is the best way to have a conversation, ... Sep 14 2006, 09:38 PM ANGEEZY. aim and in real life. Sep 14 2006, 09:44 PM x1227x phone & in person Sep 14 2006, 10:12 PM Venomous Lust Oh ok i see well go eet in person have some sex an... Sep 14 2006, 10:42 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Venomous Lust @ Sep 14 2006, 11:42 ... Sep 15 2006, 08:08 AM No Fear Person to person yo! Sep 15 2006, 08:30 AM Uronacid Yeah, in person is the best, but that doesn't ... Sep 15 2006, 09:32 AM Venomous Lust QUOTE(Uronacid @ Sep 15 2006, 6:32 AM) Ye... Sep 15 2006, 01:21 PM Trinie actually thats funny! when me and my bf starte... Sep 18 2006, 05:03 PM Uronacid QUOTE(Trinie @ Sep 18 2006, 6:03 PM) actu... Sep 18 2006, 07:16 PM My Cinderella. Person to person. It can be the hardest and the ea... Sep 18 2006, 09:23 PM This Confession Eh don't ever communicate with someone over ai... Sep 20 2006, 05:02 PM |
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