He asked me not to come to the party. |
He asked me not to come to the party. |
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My boyfriend and I are invited to his friends party, but my boyfriend basicly uninvited me. He basicly doesn't want me to wreck my night. Ok I have bad anxiety and might end up needing to go home early. A while back at his friends parties, I was like a hermit crab, alway in my shell coz i was so self concious and he wanted me to come so i'd open up more and make the effort and I did.Now he's basicly asking me to go back into my shell just to make him happy.
I am so upset,he's such an a-hole. It's not as if I was going to leave at 10pm at night. I said we can leave at like 3am or whatever, I just didn't really wanna stay the night and if he was me, I wouldn't ask him not to come, i'd try make him feel more comfortable so he didn't want to leave. I can't win. What do you think? |
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Turns out I took it all the wrong way. When he said is it alright you don't come?He meant, you sure you don't want to come...I really should learn to not over react and he ignored me and that coz I wouldn't listen...It's coz of my negative thoughts i get ,i'm an idiot. But he partly was worried baout me coming coz of my anxiety and it's far away from home.
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