He asked me not to come to the party. |
 Sep 14 2006, 09:37 PM
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My boyfriend and I are invited to his friends party, but my boyfriend basicly uninvited me. He basicly doesn't want me to wreck my night. Ok I have bad anxiety and might end up needing to go home early. A while back at his friends parties, I was like a hermit crab, alway in my shell coz i was so self concious and he wanted me to come so i'd open up more and make the effort and I did.Now he's basicly asking me to go back into my shell just to make him happy.
I am so upset,he's such an a-hole. It's not as if I was going to leave at 10pm at night. I said we can leave at like 3am or whatever, I just didn't really wanna stay the night and if he was me, I wouldn't ask him not to come, i'd try make him feel more comfortable so he didn't want to leave. I can't win. What do you think? |
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Sep 15 2006, 01:55 PM
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 Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
Yeah ok that is kinda f**ked up but its your fault to i mean i really dont know what you fear all that much honestly i think you have issues that you have to get over by yourself.He wants to party and have fun but you are holding him back and thats not ok .I think you and i both know that its you who is going to create problems bettween you and your bf because you cant try or make a sacrifice for him that would mean the world to him.My opinion just dont go if you know you can handle it.
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misfit He asked me not to come to the party. Sep 14 2006, 09:37 PM
yrrnotelekktric Your boyfriend doesn`t want you to go a party ... Sep 14 2006, 09:40 PM Listelle Wow, I don't want to judge your bf so quickly.... Sep 14 2006, 09:45 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b f**k that. Go if you want and leave when you want,... Sep 14 2006, 09:54 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS QUOTEb\' date=\'Sep 14 2006, 9:5... Sep 14 2006, 10:49 PM x1227x ^ agree. dont listen to what he says. you do whate... Sep 14 2006, 09:56 PM Venomous Lust ok well um just chill out go to the partyand tuffe... Sep 14 2006, 10:44 PM misfit I see where you are coming from, but he doesn... Sep 14 2006, 11:20 PM misfit Turns out I took it all the wrong way. When he sai... Sep 17 2006, 10:00 AM Angelina Taylor ^ Don't try to justify his actions. Your boyfr... Sep 17 2006, 10:31 AM _sarcastic_ it doesn't matter if he's worried about yo... Sep 17 2006, 12:44 PM candy_coated_kisses QUOTEDon't try to justify his actions. Your bo... Sep 17 2006, 02:50 PM Venomous Lust Oh you people are stubborn you refuse to look at i... Sep 17 2006, 03:26 PM misfit Well for starters, I got it wrong. He didn't a... Sep 18 2006, 10:48 AM princess*missy mine's going good fer now. We just celebrated ... Sep 18 2006, 11:08 AM sillakilla220 y'kno this kind of situation is always tricky.... Sep 18 2006, 11:32 AM misfit QUOTE(sillakilla220 @ Sep 19 2006, 2:32 A... Sep 18 2006, 08:14 PM KissMe2408 QUOTE(sillakilla220 @ Sep 18 2006, 12:32 ... Sep 18 2006, 08:30 PM misfit =/ what a weirdo. Well i've been thinking and ... Sep 20 2006, 06:39 AM |
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