ach plz help! hes so annoying! |
ach plz help! hes so annoying! |
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i was with this guy for like 3 months but we both liked eachother for a full year b4 that and neither of us knew how the other one felt. for around 4 months b4 we were together we were VERY flirty with eachother...and he was always touching me and tickling me and alwyas teasing me (in a fun way)...now were done....since about a month ago...and for like 2 weeks things between us were awkward...we didnt see eachother much and when we did...we wudnt talk much and he absolutely wouldnt touch me...now hes starting again..hes teasing me and doing alot of stuff he used to do...do u think hes tryna get back with me? do u think i shud get back with him? i was veryyy hurt when we were finished so i really wanna get back with him but all my friends are telling me i shouldnt get back with him because he made me so upset and i shouldnt even be friends with some one who made me so upset...any help?
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*Uronacid* |
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Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. Tell him how he made you feel the first time that he hurt you. Tell him what you are afraid of right now. Just give him the facts. You don't have to be emotional about it when you tell him.
Here's an example of something I would say if I was in your position, "Look, I like you, but you really hurt me last time we went out. How do I know you're not going to do it again. I'm willing to do this for a second time because I like you. Things may be a little bit different this time because I don't trust you the way I did, and it will take time for me to trust you and act comfortable around you again." |
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