what's the best way to communicate?, phone? person to person? instant messenger? |
 Sep 11 2006, 05:09 PM
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there's this guy who i've liked for awhile...but the only way we have good, meaningful conversations is by using the internet (emails, instant messenger, etc). we do talk in person, but it always seems awkward because we're both kind of shy. we have attempted to talk on the phone (every now and then), and the conversations start out fine until we run out of things to say. then we start saying stuff like "um"', "oh"', "that's nice", etc.
the problem is that we're both so busy with schoolwork and other activities that we hardly talk online or see each other as much. i don't want our relationship to drift away...should i call more often to keep in touch? even if it'll be awkward? haha this is pathetic 
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 15 2006, 09:32 AM
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Yeah, in person is the best, but that doesn't mean that you will be able to spark a convo better in person than you can on aim. Best way to learn how to have conversations with a specific person is to spend time with them. The only reason AIM is such a bad environment for this is that you can experience a person to a certain piont. After that piont it's like you can't get to know eachother any better. AIM is missing the accents in the voice, and the expressions in the face. You will find that if you spend more time with him, you will get to know him better (giving you more to talk about), things will happen between you that will give you more things to talk about, you'll start to form inside jokes between eachother, or you may even ind that you don't like him as much as you thought you did. It's always weird hanging out with someone for the first time. So, don't worry if things are awkward in the begining. Things will work if they are ment to work, and you can't force chemistry if it isn't there.
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purrfecto what's the best way to communicate? Sep 11 2006, 05:09 PM
krnxswat Instead of having meaningful conversations online,... Sep 11 2006, 05:19 PM
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